Log In Sign Up

Anyone else not allowed to DTD right now?


Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss

Notices

Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to boards@justmommies.com.

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
  #1  
July 30th, 2011, 09:44 PM
Veteran
Join Date: Feb 2011
Posts: 157
Following my surgery, no sex for about 2 weeks. That timeline ends on my birthday, Aug 7th. Its SOOO far away!
Never have I wanted to turn 31 so desperately!
*sigh*
Why is it we want it even worse when we can't have it?
just one week until we can start TTC again, and hopefully get our BFP soon!
Reply With Quote
  #2  
July 30th, 2011, 11:04 PM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Aug 2008
Posts: 10,638
I'm not supposed to either, until Wednesday (because of D&C). But I just did, literally 5 minutes ago .. sorry if TMI.
It's my DH's birthday though, and I haven't been bleeding so I hope it's ok.

I hope time flies by for you!! (((HUGS)))
__________________
- 03/28/10 09/'10 06/'11, D&C July 20 Apr/'12




Reply With Quote
  #3  
July 31st, 2011, 12:16 AM
Veteran
Join Date: Feb 2011
Posts: 157
Quote:
Originally Posted by Servilia View Post
I'm not supposed to either, until Wednesday (because of D&C). But I just did, literally 5 minutes ago .. sorry if TMI.
It's my DH's birthday though, and I haven't been bleeding so I hope it's ok.

I hope time flies by for you!! (((HUGS)))
Man, I wish I could break the rules this time, lol!
I'm healing from a Ute scraping, and still having discomfort and such, so it wouldn't do good for me anyway!
Reply With Quote
  #4  
July 31st, 2011, 06:13 AM
Cartersmommy08's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: MI
Posts: 1,262
Me and it's been a really looooooooooooooooong time I had my BFP on father's day. I think we got one deed in and then the spotting started on July 1st and I was on bedrest, so no deed for that. I had the M/C on 7/11 and although the bleeding completely stopped the week of 7/25, I'm terrified to DTD again! Although I really really want too! My HPT's are still showing BFP's, although much lighter, I'm scared of getting a BFP in this window so we're abstaining (sorry barriers are just as bad as obstaining IMO). Prayng that AF gets here sooner than later!
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #5  
July 31st, 2011, 06:14 AM
.:Shortcake:.'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 14,553
I can right now but there have been many times I wasn't allowed and I wanted it like crazy. ((HUGS)) it will be worth the wait
__________________

Thank you Jaidynsmum for my lovely siggy!
My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11


Want a siggy in a hurry? Check out my Siggy Express Lane

Reply With Quote
  #6  
July 31st, 2011, 07:12 AM
LindseyE117's Avatar Wookie's Girl
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Texas
Posts: 3,482
I am not supposed to until we either get a negative beta or until we see a heartbeat on the u/s. My hormones are so out of whack though that I have been having orgasms in my sleep (waaaaaaaaaay TMI I know sorry). It has never happened to me before, but the nurse at my clinic said it is not uncommon with all the hormones I am on. Keeps freaking me out too because it can ruin our chances at IVF.
__________________
Link to my belly pics:

Thank you Shortcake for my beautiful siggy!
Reply With Quote
  #7  
July 31st, 2011, 10:45 AM
Veteran
Join Date: Feb 2011
Posts: 157
Quote:
Originally Posted by LindseyE117 View Post
I am not supposed to until we either get a negative beta or until we see a heartbeat on the u/s. My hormones are so out of whack though that I have been having orgasms in my sleep (waaaaaaaaaay TMI I know sorry). It has never happened to me before, but the nurse at my clinic said it is not uncommon with all the hormones I am on. Keeps freaking me out too because it can ruin our chances at IVF.
I hope it doesn't effect your chances!
I'm at the point where a couple kisses on the neck could probably get me there. My husband was in the field before the surgery, so its been several weeks. And his reconciliation for no sex is making out and such! *AAAAGGGGGHHHH*
Reply With Quote
Reply

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 11:25 AM.


Copyright © 2003-2011 JustMommies.com, All Rights Reserved.
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0