Me and it's been a really looooooooooooooooong time

I had my BFP on father's day. I think we got one deed in and then the spotting started on July 1st and I was on bedrest, so no deed for that. I had the M/C on 7/11 and although the bleeding completely stopped the week of 7/25, I'm terrified to DTD again! Although I really really want too! My HPT's are still showing BFP's, although much lighter, I'm scared of getting a BFP in this window so we're abstaining (sorry barriers are just as bad as obstaining IMO). Prayng that AF gets here sooner than later!