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August 1st, 2011, 07:30 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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How are you doing hun? I have been thinking about you, I hope the swelling and pain are going away.
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August 1st, 2011, 10:00 AM
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Yes Lindsey please update us when you can. ((HUGS))
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August 1st, 2011, 10:17 AM
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Wookie's Girl
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The swelling is almost gone. I definately do not hurt as much as I did (which is good and bad news)--good news because I feel better and bad news because it would get worse with pregnancy.
I have been having AF style cramps for the last 2 days, but other than that I have no symptoms of pregnancy. My boobs have stayed swollen and crampy from the progesterone and other meds. Still getting BFN's. I thought I saw an extremely faint 2nd line today, but I am sure it is all in my head because I took another test later that showed nothing.
I am really losing all hope here and I have been severely depressed. My hubby had to pull me out of bed a few times yesterday. I would be ok if this did not work because we would have had some frozen babies left over, but all those died during the freezing process. We have no 2nd chance at this and we definately cannot afford a 2nd fresh cycle. So this is it for us. I'm having a really hard time letting go. I know there is still a chance, but I really don't want to hope if that makes any sense. I'd rather it hurt a little than hurt a lot.
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August 1st, 2011, 10:40 AM
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Lindsey I'm glad your feeling better. Please do not give up hope yet. We are here for you and I hope and pray you get your BFP.
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August 1st, 2011, 10:53 AM
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Lindsey,, don't give up hope!! I am hoping and praying like Katie that you get your BFP.
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August 1st, 2011, 10:57 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm with the others! Don't lose hope! We are all here cheering you on!!
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August 1st, 2011, 10:59 AM
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I'm still holding out hope. I really hope this works for you.
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August 1st, 2011, 11:01 AM
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Super Mommy
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don't give up hope yet. I would think you're just like others who are newly pregnant. most don't have symptoms until they are a little further along then you are, plus you've been on some hormone meds, so it will be hard to tell what's real and what's not. don't lose hope yet. I pray that you'll get your baby out of this whole ordeal. happy thoughts...
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August 1st, 2011, 11:46 AM
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glad you are not in much pain anymore. Still hold out hope for you.
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August 1st, 2011, 12:03 PM
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I have everything *still* crossed for you. Hoping you get your miracle baby!
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August 1st, 2011, 12:40 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Lindsey, don't give up hope, i did and look at me. IVF pregs can take longer to show on a hpt. Those embie can hang out in there for a while before they implant. Don't give up until you go for your beta.
When is that????
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August 1st, 2011, 01:29 PM
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My beta is on the 8th. I am really trying to stay positive. It is just so hard.
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August 1st, 2011, 01:42 PM
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Praying that you get your BFP!! Please don't lose hope.
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August 1st, 2011, 02:02 PM
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thinking about you lots! <3 I really hope this is it for you!!! We are all rootin for ya
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August 1st, 2011, 02:25 PM
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I am very hopeful for you! I am sure it is getting discouraging seeing bfn, but like mmllhh said, it may take longer to show for ivf pregnancies! I hope that is the case and you are posting on here a pic of your BFP here soon! you should post a pic of the one you thought you saw a line on.....we would love to see it!!
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August 1st, 2011, 02:32 PM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I know it is easier said then done. Try to hold onto some hope. We are here for you and we are thinking of you.
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August 1st, 2011, 03:22 PM
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Glad you feel better. Prayers for you and that you get a sticky bfp.
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August 1st, 2011, 07:40 PM
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Sandie- Here is what I think I see. This is this night's test. It is bad cell phone quality, so I do not know if yall can see anything. Still no definate positive. I lined up the line of one of my negatives to the 2nd line of the maybe.
Can someone change the title to possible pregnancy so no one gets upset?
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August 1st, 2011, 11:09 PM
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I think I see the line!! Can't wait to see your next test!
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August 2nd, 2011, 02:56 AM
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It's me
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Quote:
Originally Posted by LindseyE117
Sandie- Here is what I think I see. This is this night's test. It is bad cell phone quality, so I do not know if yall can see anything. Still no definate positive. I lined up the line of one of my negatives to the 2nd line of the maybe.
Can someone change the title to possible pregnancy so no one gets upset.
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you can edit the title by going to your first post and clicking edit.
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