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August 1st, 2011, 03:18 PM
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Can/does your dh cook?
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something?
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what?
Do you like you dh/so's parents?
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August 1st, 2011, 03:39 PM
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Can/does your dh cook? He was a cook while in college to help pay the bills. As a short order cook, he works. As a dinner or gourmet cook, not at all. He can cook some mean eggs though.
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? I usually beg, pout, or cry to get my way. Lol. I usually win unless it is something huge.
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? No. I have kept nothing from him. I have found that lying to your SO will always catch up to you in the end. Plus I believe an honest open relationship will last.
Do you like you dh/so's parents? I am lucky because I have excellent in-laws. It is so funny though because his dad is so my like my DH. He usually is just quiet and sits there while my MIL blabs away (I LITERALLY cannot shut up sometimes ). There are a few things that irratate me about her, but in the end she means well so I am extremely happy with the family I married in to.
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August 1st, 2011, 03:44 PM
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Can/does your dh cook? Yes he is a very good cook Doesn't do it much anymore though since he works a lot now. But usually lends me a hand without asking if he is here.
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? I probably do at some point. Probably being silly though
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? Not really...maybe sometimes but it isn't anything big and I usually end up telling him anyway.
Do you like you dh/so's parents? Yeah His grandparents are more of his mom and dad in my eyes though and I love them! His dad lives in Maryland and we never talk to him really...maybe once a month. His mom is....nice but she is supposedly bipolar and has other issues as well. So sometimes she is not all "there" I guess you could say.
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August 1st, 2011, 03:53 PM
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Can/does your dh cook? Lol he is a horrible cook! He has tried a couple of things and it's never edible. The only thing he can do is use the grill to make burgers and steaks
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? Sometimes even if I don't feel like doing something I'll say well if I do this I want a good back massage tonight...
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? Other than when I'm Oing nope
Do you like you dh/so's parents? Yes. His dad is an awesome help and is always trying to do things for us. His mom can be super annoying although she means well.
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August 1st, 2011, 04:49 PM
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Can/does your dh cook? Yes, he's an amazing cook! I love it in the winter when he's not out on the boat because he cooks all the time. In the summer, that is my job.
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? I have tried, but I usually fail, lol. Although, if he does something wrong (like not call me if he won't be home for dinner) then he knows he's in big trouble so I usually get a meal out the next night.
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? The only thing I keep from him are the details of TTC. He has no clue about where I am in my cycle (except for AF days) and it's better to keep it that way. Other than that, I talk to him about everything. No secrets.
Do you like you dh/so's parents? Yes, they are very nice and they love me which is always a good thing.
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August 1st, 2011, 05:30 PM
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Can/does your dh cook? He is very capable of cooking but never does.

Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? no, we have a very give and take relationship.

Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? Yes all the time. We work in the same industry and due to confidentiality contracts I have in place I am not able to tell him a lot about work. We both totally get it though as we have had to learn to separate business from personal.

Do you like you dh/so's parents? I miss them so much. Today I saw a cute shirt that said "I love my grandma" and I started crying inside of costco. It makes me cry that Martha and Merrill won't get to see their granddaughter grow up.
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August 1st, 2011, 05:42 PM
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Can/does your dh cook? Yes. Some things he does really well, like spaghetti sauce. And sometimes he needs to be reined in a little because he like to experiment and comes up with some "interesting" things! We cook together a lot.
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? I've never had to even think about doing that. We're both pretty reasonable and like to give each other what we want if it's doable.
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? Nope... although there are some things from my past that I haven't volunteered. They don't affect us now and he hasn't asked about them. If he did, I'd be honest.
Do you like you dh/so's parents? Yup... his dad is a retired Navy guy - gruff on the outside but really a big old teddy bear. And his mom can be exhausting - she talks nonstop and she likes to tell me stories about people I've never met. But she's got the kindest heart and they've really embraced and welcomed me into the family.
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August 1st, 2011, 08:33 PM
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Can/does your dh cook? My DH is an amazing cook, even though I do most of the cooking

Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? Lol no....

Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? The only thing I keep from DH is pertaining to TTC

Do you like you dh/so's parents? I love my father in law, I never got a chance to meet my mother in law
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August 1st, 2011, 11:36 PM
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Can/does your dh cook? He grills that is about it.
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? Oh heck yes. I bribe him all the time
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? None that I can think of. I am not that exciting of a person LOL.
Do you like you dh/so's parents? Love his mom, his dad is alright and his dad's new wife is a hooker who I don't like.
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August 2nd, 2011, 03:46 AM
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Can/does your dh cook? Dh can cook and when he is home he helps with the cooking. With me not working I am doing all the cooking. On weekends he will take over.
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? I usually don't have to. He usually gives me what I want.
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? the only secret I keep from him is when I am O'ing. This has worked for us the last couple of cycles.
Do you like you dh/so's parents? I never got a chance to meet Dh's dad. He passed away before I met Dh. I wish I would have had a chance to meet him. A lot of people have told me he was like Dh. I don't like Dh's mom. We don't get a long at all. I don't like fake people and people who lie and she is both.
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August 2nd, 2011, 05:21 AM
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Can/does your dh cook? Yes
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? No
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? No
Do you like you dh/so's parents? His mother has passed, his dad is nice but reclusive.
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August 2nd, 2011, 05:30 AM
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Can/does your dh cook? yes
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? yes!
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? no, nothing
Do you like you dh/so's parents? for the most part
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August 2nd, 2011, 05:38 AM
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Can/does your dh cook? Yes he can cook
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? No
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? No
Do you like you dh/so's parents? Never got a chance to meet them.
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August 2nd, 2011, 07:40 AM
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Can/does your dh cook? not really. He can cook but he doesn't do it very often. He does grill for me a lot and is very good at grilling meat.
Do you ever make deals with your dh/so to get your way on something? Oh yes all the time lol!!
Do you keep any secrets from your dh/so? if so what? no, I can't think of anything I would want to keep a secret anyways.
Do you like you dh/so's parents? Yes, sort of lol. I can deal with them and they aren't that bad. There are somethings that have come up that I haven't been happy with but over all they are great in laws.
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