Goodbye....for a few months

Braysmomma03 · #1 August 3rd, 2011, 07:19 PM

I know I don't post here much, mostly stalk but you ladies were my crutch when I had the miscarriage. Sadly, I have to stop trying to conceive for a while. It has put strain on my marriage and has put to much stress on me, all I can think about is trying to get our rainbow baby and its not healthy at this point how much I obsess. I I will be not trying/not preventing now, basically just charting my cervix changes and temp, no opks. I wish you all the best and pray that I see lots of sticky beans when I check back.

terajet · #2 August 3rd, 2011, 07:24 PM

Good luck....maybe a break is what you need to get your rainbow baby.

Take care.

JessP · #3 August 3rd, 2011, 07:33 PM

Good luck! I know that after my second loss we needed a break and not trying was really good for me and for our marriage. I hope that when you come back its because you are well on your way to a rainbow baby.

lindsey2000k · #4 August 3rd, 2011, 07:40 PM

I'm sorry and hope your rainbow baby comes soon.

TnPhotoMama81 · #5 August 3rd, 2011, 07:58 PM

I am sorry but totally understand though. I hope things get better and you feel less stress soon. Maybe you will get your BFP without even really trying

nala139 · #6 August 3rd, 2011, 10:37 PM

I can definately understand how TTCAL can strain a marriage. I hope you guys become even closer through all of this. I also hope you don't have to wait too long for your rainbow baby.

doremi · #7 August 3rd, 2011, 10:41 PM

Best wishes to you! I hope the TTC break draws you and your DH closer than ever, and that you get your rainbow baby soon!

.:Shortcake:. · #8 August 4th, 2011, 04:16 AM

((HUGS)) I have taken several breaks from the craziness and it always seems to help me. Who knows maybe this break from the stress with bring you your BFP

We love you and will be here for you when you return!

*SamF* · #9 August 4th, 2011, 05:38 AM

Good luck! I hope the break does good for both you and your DH! It would be awesome if your return was to tell us you got your BFP!!

joanna26 · #10 August 4th, 2011, 05:40 AM

HUGS, good luck sweetie!

EJsMommy · #11 August 4th, 2011, 05:45 AM

I completely understand the TTC putting stress on you and your marriage as it did to me when I had my loss. Do what you need to get your marriage to a better place and you to de-stress. You will get your rainbow baby. We will welcome you back when you are ready to come back.