[Ana*Addey*OliveMommy]

Hello Ladies-

I am Shayna 27 and I just lost our 3rd baby. We have 2 beautiful little girls Anneliese 2 next month and Adalyn almost 8 months. We decided we wanted 1 more just as close as the girls are and got pg right away. It took us 2.5 years to get our BFP with Anneliese.

Yesterday was hard crying on and off blaming myself for it. But today I woke up and I am feeling at ease and OK. Today is day 2 we were only 5w4d so had only known for 10 days. But something inside of me knew this was not our baby and I knew it wasn't going to lost.

Is this normal or am I in denial and will be having a crush soon?

We were given the ok to TTC right away as long as my bleeding isn't too heavy which its just been a normal AF so far.

[JessP]

I am so sorry for all of your losses. Do they know why you keep having them? Welcome to the group. This is a wonderful group of ladies. Its hard to know if you will feel differently in a couple days or even weeks. It might depend on how long it takes to conceive or if you have another loss after this. I pray you don't have another loss and you get pregnant right away with a healthy baby.

[Cartersmommy08]

Welcome and (((HUGS))) If i'm reading it correctly I think this is your first m/c? Meaning three babies, 2 beautiful little girls and this loss?

For me, it's been a real roller coaster with the emotions. I mean litterally one week (or day) I'm fine, like it never happened, the next I'm angry, irritable, depressed. I think it's completely normal and part of the grief process.

I actually started therapy last week based on the loss. It was my first loss but I was having a hard time coping with it so I thought I could use some help in learining how to process my grief. My therapist told me that the most important thing in recovery from the loss is to allow myself to feel, even if it's just for a few minutes each day, anytime I start to be upset about it allow myself to be!

This is a great group here who is willing and ready to offer support and answer any of your questions. I hope it helps you as much as I feel it's helped me! I am sorry you are experiencing this. I wish no woman ever had to suffer this pain!

[Ana*Addey*OliveMommy]

Thanks Ladies!

This is my second loss I had one in 2000 but didn't even know I was pg until they told me the blood loss I was having was from a m/c. So I of course count that when seeing my dr and stuff but never affected me as I was 16 and not in a good place in my life.

We had problems getting pg with our first but our first 2 there were no problems with the pg. This is our 3rd pg since getting pg in 2008 with Anneliese and first m/c.

[momof6lopez]

Welcome to TTCAL and Im so sorry for your loss. Everyone is different on how they grieve and for how long. Knowing you were pregnant for 10 days can seem like a lifetime to some women, and others they heal quickly. You may have good days like today and their maybe something to happen in the coming days that triggers the grief again. Praying that you get your little rainbow baby quickly and go on to have a healthy beautiful little one again!

[Ana*Addey*OliveMommy]

Thanks for the welcome!

[.:Shortcake:.]

((HUGS)) I am so sorry for your loss. I agree with the other ladies. Everyone grieves differently. We are here for you hun!

[Ana*Addey*OliveMommy]

Thanks I look forward to going through this new journey in my life with you all.

[ttcivfma]

Welcome! I know I personally go from highs and lows sometimes within hours. Everyone grieves and heals differently. There is no normal or right way. I hope you have no problems getting a sticky bean this time around!