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August 8th, 2011, 04:23 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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How are you doing sweetie? Thinking of you
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August 8th, 2011, 05:49 PM
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Been thinking about her too <3
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August 8th, 2011, 05:56 PM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I have been thinking of you also.
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August 8th, 2011, 07:24 PM
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Hopes To Be A Mommy
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Thinking of you too sweetheart <3
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August 8th, 2011, 11:37 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Me too... I hope you're doing okay.
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August 9th, 2011, 04:23 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Me too Lindsey!
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August 9th, 2011, 05:05 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I've been thinking of you too.
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August 9th, 2011, 06:03 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I've been thinking of you also Lindsey and hoping that your okay.
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August 9th, 2011, 06:05 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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HUGS hon  I'm praying for you!!
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August 9th, 2011, 11:12 AM
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Wookie's Girl
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Wow I just saw this ladies. I am not doing too well. My beta came back yesterday negative, which I kind of figured. I did not ask what my number was, but I do have an appointment today to discuss further options. Honestly we cannot afford any meds for another cycle, so really our only option is natural cycles. I don't think I will ever get pregnant.
I did also start bleeding yesterday to add insult to injury. Plus to top it all off, I have over 20 friends on Facebook who announced that they are expecting within the last 2 months. I want to scream.
I am just going to try and keep my mind off of things for now and hopefully some miracle will come our way.
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August 9th, 2011, 11:28 AM
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Super Mommy
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Awe  i'm so sorry lindsey! i had been thinking of you too, sorry to hear the bad news.
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August 9th, 2011, 11:35 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry!!! That is so unfair!!! And to have all those FB pregnancies slapping you in the face just makes it so much harder. I hope that your doctor can come up with a good plan for you. I have faith that you will get your rainbow baby!!
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August 9th, 2011, 11:45 AM
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Praying 4 a miracle
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I'm so sorry Lindsey
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August 9th, 2011, 12:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am very sorry
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August 9th, 2011, 12:49 PM
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Veteran
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Lindsey, I have a friend. Her and her DH TTC for 6 years. Just when they gave up and started thinking of adoption, they get pregnant and they actually had their son on his due date. Miracles can happen when you least expect them. I'm sorry for what you've had to go through, and also having to hear that so many of your friends are pregnant. I'm in the same boat. Hang in there.
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August 9th, 2011, 12:50 PM
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Wookie's Girl
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Whjat makes it hard is that there was a huge group on here going through IVF all at the same time. I was the only one out of all of them who it did not work for. Also, I was the only one who developed sever OHSS. I finally am down the 10lbs of fluid I gained during the ordeal, but I still feel terrible and my body feels weak.
I am having a really hard time controlling the anger, jealousy, and grief from the whole process. I need time to heal and process everything that just happened. I just really do not know if we will ever get pregnant again. I don't think I am going to let this stop me, but I know our time is limited for this. Like I said, hopefully we will get a miracle.
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August 9th, 2011, 02:26 PM
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Hugs! I am so sorry - so not fair! I will be praying for you!
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August 9th, 2011, 05:27 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by LindseyE117
Whjat makes it hard is that there was a huge group on here going through IVF all at the same time. I was the only one out of all of them who it did not work for. Also, I was the only one who developed sever OHSS. I finally am down the 10lbs of fluid I gained during the ordeal, but I still feel terrible and my body feels weak.
I am having a really hard time controlling the anger, jealousy, and grief from the whole process. I need time to heal and process everything that just happened. I just really do not know if we will ever get pregnant again. I don't think I am going to let this stop me, but I know our time is limited for this. Like I said, hopefully we will get a miracle.
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((HUGS)) I'm sorry. I know it's frustrating. I'm praying you get your rainbow baby soon. Don't ever give up.
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August 9th, 2011, 06:07 PM
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I hate this for you...wished things were MUCH different. It ISN'T fair. Thinking about you xoxo
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August 9th, 2011, 07:22 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: Washington State
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You have been through so much. I'm so sorry this didn't work out the way we all hoped it would. Praying for you during this difficult time, and hoping you get your miracle!
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