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August 9th, 2011, 07:12 AM
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It seams to me some twisted fate of penance to loose this one too.
How can I ever be ok with any of this!
I'm so mad and hurt and just plain angry at all of it....ever.
How am I supposed to deal with so many losses?! I just can't see past this right now. I feel like an utter failure at being a human.....
I got the call this am.....hcg down, progesterone down.....
'brace for your misscariage.'
I can't stop crying.......
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August 9th, 2011, 07:15 AM
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I'm so sorry!
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August 9th, 2011, 07:17 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses. Please don't feel like a failure. Anger was what I felt at first after my loss. I know how hard it is not to be angry after your loss. Please know that we are here for you if you need to vent. My heart is breaking for you. I'm just so sorry that this is happening again.
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August 9th, 2011, 07:18 AM
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August 9th, 2011, 07:19 AM
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I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of you.
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August 9th, 2011, 07:22 AM
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August 9th, 2011, 07:31 AM
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I am so sorry This is not fair!
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August 9th, 2011, 07:54 AM
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I am so, so sorry!!! It must be super devastating because of the roller coaster of good and bad news you've gotten ever since you found out you were pregnant this time. We are here for you, and you WILL get through this, even though you feel like just curling up and dying right now. Huge hugs to you!
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August 9th, 2011, 08:28 AM
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Oh jeeze sweetheart. I am so sorry what we have to go through truly isn't fair. Biggest hugs ever sent to you. Really.
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August 9th, 2011, 08:48 AM
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I'm sorry. This totally sucks!
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August 9th, 2011, 08:56 AM
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HUGS.. I am so sorry that you have to go through this again. It is not fair.
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August 9th, 2011, 09:28 AM
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(((HUGS))) I am SO sorry No one should ever have to endure 1 let alone 5! I hope they have some answers for you. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you are in physically and emotionally! I pray that God can give you the strength to get through it one more time I don't understand life sometimes, I am sorry!
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August 9th, 2011, 03:10 PM
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((HUGS)) I am so sorry your having to go through this again. Are they going to run any testing? We are here for you hun. It's just not fair
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August 9th, 2011, 03:29 PM
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They did progesterone testing months back and deemed me to have Leuteal phase defect. This pg was after 1 st round of clomid. So they want to do more testing after my next AF. I'm waiting to miscarry naturally right now. I just wish it would happen already....it's just devastating waking up every day and still no sign of my body letting go if this pregnancy. I'm hurting so badly.....
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August 9th, 2011, 03:38 PM
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Could you request the pills to help things more along naturally or opt for a D&C. The waiting game is the hardest.
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August 9th, 2011, 03:59 PM
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I have fashion week that I'm preparing a collection for. I have 12 looks to cut and sew in less than two weeks. I just don't have time to do d&c like last time. Dr did not offer a pill.....
Also, I'm 37.....I'm now feeling I'm too old for this to happen......
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August 9th, 2011, 05:48 PM
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I'm sorry hon HUGS!!!
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August 9th, 2011, 07:15 PM
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I am so sorry. I wish you didn't have to deal with this for a 5th time. *hugs*
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August 10th, 2011, 12:58 AM
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I am sorry. Life is not fair. Hugs.
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August 10th, 2011, 03:05 AM
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Oh no! I am so sorry!!! It really isn't fair!! I hope that they can help you figure things out so you can go on to have your rainbow baby soon!
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