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  #1  
August 9th, 2011, 02:53 PM
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Well after we decided we would do some clomid for three months, DH had his other sperm analysis today and the results are worse than the first time. His count is now 7 million from 30million, 1+ motility rate from 2+ and 35% motility from 40%. I am heart broken to say the least, I don't think that we will be having another child anytime soon. I think it is hurting more now because in 19 days I was due with our angel. Im numb right now, I thought it was going to go up and the first time was a fluke. Just thought I would update you ladies. I will be stalking you all. to all!
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August 9th, 2011, 02:59 PM
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((HUGS)) Praying you get a surprise miracle. Remember it only takes one but I understand that bad news starts piling up and it's hard. We are here for you!
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August 9th, 2011, 05:59 PM
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I am so sorry I agree with Katie it only takes 1...is there anything that can be done to improve his count and stuff?
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August 9th, 2011, 07:59 PM
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I dont know, im taking some time away from the dr for a few months and hes wanting to go on a diet and such to improve his health as well as myself. I just dont get how it went down so much in such a short time. I dont want a doctor hounding about tests and meds and such, want to take some time to wrap my head around this all and as we all do research research research lol
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August 9th, 2011, 11:36 PM
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I'm sorry you got bad news. I'll be thinking of you, praying you get a little spermie named SUPERMAN who gets the job done
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August 10th, 2011, 12:50 AM
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I am sorry you got bad news. I agree with Katie though it only takes one. Sending you hugs.
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August 10th, 2011, 05:14 AM
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I am sorry about the bad news! I think that the track you both are thinking of going down is good as the motility and health of the sperm is depending on the health of the man of course unless he has had an injury to it. Eat healthy and excercise is the best.
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August 10th, 2011, 05:29 AM
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I'm so sorry you got bad news. I am hoping and praying that his numbers improve and you get your miracle!
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August 10th, 2011, 05:39 AM
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Im sorry about the bad news.
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August 10th, 2011, 05:56 AM
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I'm sorry you got bad news. I'm hoping that by getting healthier it will improve his count and like the ladies said above it only takes one.
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August 10th, 2011, 06:01 AM
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Lol that one spermie is taking his sweet time, going on 2 years with one miscarriage....anyone care to tell it to hurry up allready?
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August 10th, 2011, 06:06 AM
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I'm sorry about this news. I pray that "one" comes soon!!!
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August 10th, 2011, 06:45 AM
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The whole reason James and I did IVF was because his SA's were getting worse and worse each time we had one. The doctor recommended Fertility Blend for him and put him on clomid. His counts always varied, but his motility and morph kept getting lower and lower. He went from 15% motility to 95% motility after 2 weeks of taking clomid. You should have your doctor prescribe some for him and put him on Fertility Blend.
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August 10th, 2011, 06:51 AM
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HUGS honey I'm sorry that he got bad results. Now that you know, you both can try to correct them. I will be praying that your rainbow baby comes to you soon!!
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August 10th, 2011, 09:10 AM
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Hope getting healthier, and maybe trying a fertility blend helps! Still holding out for that one super sperm!
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August 10th, 2011, 09:14 AM
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I am so sorry about this news for you and your family. I hope things turn around for you and somehow you still are able to conceive. Hugs to you.
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