[ttcivfma]

So I got a text from my mom yesterday. My aunt who is almost 40 and my uncle who is in his 50's, are expecting their 4th child. This is their second surprise baby. Their last one was after my aunt was told that she would not be able to have any more children due to her endo. We were preggo at the same time. My uncle had a vasectomy that I guess didnt work. She is now due in April. And once again she is pregnant and I am not. Both times she is pregnant and I m/c. I want the baby and they are not happy about their pregnancy. it feels like a kick to my gut. I am trying to keep my faith but it is being very strongly tested right now.

[.:Shortcake:.]

((HUGS)) I am so sorry your having to go through this again. It's always hard when someone we know is pregnant and due around the same time we would have been.

[Blue_fire]

I feel ya hunnie. It hardly seems right.

[pepper73]

I'm so sorry. It's hard enough dealing with a loss, but hurts even more when our friends/family get pregnant when we are trying so hard. The fact that they aren't happy about it just adds to the pain, I'm sure. Big hugs to you!

[EJsMommy]

Big Hugs! It seems unfair when you are trying so hard and they get pregnant and are not happy about it.

[*SamF*]

I'm sorry, I think those are the hardest, when they get pregnant and aren't happy about it.

[melissalaw]

I'm so sorry. It does seem unfair when others get pregnant without even trying and it is even worse when they aren't happy about it. I hope you get your rainbow baby soon.

[Shadeauxe]

I can understand the bitterness.

[joanna26]

HUGS sweetie! That is tough

[ttcivfma]

Thanks ladies. It is hard enough to have the loss but this is like salt in the wound. And yea it is a lot harder that they dont even want the baby. They will love it as they do all their children but I am like that is supposed to be mine. I am trying not to be bitter but it is not easy.