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August 12th, 2011, 06:09 PM
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well, that was short lived I guess. My Hcg was 78 on Mon, 113 on wed, and 107 today. The dr. called and said to prepare for m/c.  I am really torn up. I guess I shouldn't have tried again so soon. ugghhh...I am not cramping or anything, so I am just sitting here...alone...waiting for it to happen. I wish my husband was home right now.
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~Heather~
Mommy to Ally-16 and Meagan-12
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 8/16/2011
Oh..can't forget my furbabies, Maggie and Milo.
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August 12th, 2011, 06:11 PM
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(((hugs))) I am so sorry sweetie. I know the pain of loss all too well. I wish there was something I could do for you.
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August 12th, 2011, 06:13 PM
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Stephanie
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I am soooo sorry! Sending you loads of hugs.
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August 12th, 2011, 06:14 PM
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I am so sorry that this is happening to you again. A loss is such a hard thing. Will your husband be home soon? Just know that we are there for you.
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August 12th, 2011, 06:25 PM
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I am so sorry....I was hoping you would not have to leave our ddc. I hate this part....losing members due to miscarriage. It isn't fair....I am sorry your husband isnt home right now...that is really hard. *hugs*
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August 12th, 2011, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted by TnPhotoMama81
I am so sorry....I was hoping you would not have to leave our ddc. I hate this part....losing members due to miscarriage. It isn't fair....I am sorry your husband isnt home right now...that is really hard. *hugs*
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August 12th, 2011, 07:09 PM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I am sorry you are going through this again. Losses are so hard. Sending you lots of hugs.
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August 12th, 2011, 07:14 PM
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Thank you guys. I am pretty sad right now, but I know I will be ok. my husband will be home Sept. 10th. ugghhh, it just can't come soon enough. The dr. mentioned doing a work up on both of us. I don't know at this point...I don't know what I want to do. Obviously now isn't a good time to even consider whether we try again or not. I probably would like to do a work up just to see if it is something that could be a simple fix or not. Just don't really want to think about that right now, you know. Anyways, thanks for all of your support. That is why I absolutely love this site. I don't know how I could get through all of this without everyone on here!!
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~Heather~
Mommy to Ally-16 and Meagan-12
 7/10/2011
 8/16/2011
Oh..can't forget my furbabies, Maggie and Milo.
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August 12th, 2011, 09:33 PM
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I just wanted to give you a big hug and let you know I am so sorry you are going through this again.
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August 12th, 2011, 09:41 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry... I was hoping all of you would stay in the April DDC... Lots of hugs and T&P coming your way...
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August 12th, 2011, 09:48 PM
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praying for our rainbow
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I am so sorry for your loss hun ((((((hugs))))) I know how it feels to be alone waiting for a miscarriage, my DH's boss wouldnt let him off work and he was gone from 7am-10pm, hopefully yours can come home soon
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August 12th, 2011, 10:17 PM
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I'm soo sorry hon... I hate reading about losses.. the pain both emotional and physical stinks and is not fair.. I hope you feel better soon
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August 13th, 2011, 12:12 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear you're going through a m/c again! Wishing you all the best during this terrible time.
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August 13th, 2011, 04:39 AM
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((HUGS)) I am so very sorry for your loss. It sucks having to re-welcome members from them having another loss.  We are here for you hun.
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August 13th, 2011, 06:11 AM
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I am sorry for you have to come back.
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August 13th, 2011, 06:30 AM
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I just wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss.
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August 13th, 2011, 07:31 AM
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I'm so sorry we are in the same boat right now... It sucks to be sure. If you need someone to talk to messsge me.
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August 13th, 2011, 07:38 AM
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I'm so sorry  My husband was away for a week when I miscarried, it can be really hard.
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August 13th, 2011, 09:18 AM
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Thank you guys again. I appreciate the re-welcome...I am glad to have such a wonderful supportive group over here.
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~Heather~
Mommy to Ally-16 and Meagan-12
 7/10/2011
 8/16/2011
Oh..can't forget my furbabies, Maggie and Milo.
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August 13th, 2011, 09:25 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by sandiegomom
Thank you guys again. I appreciate the re-welcome...I am glad to have such a wonderful supportive group over here. 
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