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August 19th, 2011, 09:10 AM
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***Staying Positive***
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I found out yesterday we are going to have a miscarriage. I had betas done and the first one on Tuesday was 57. I already knew there was a chance once I got that number because it’s really low for how far along I should be. My 2nd test showed 54. So my hcg is going down. I was pretty upset yesterday but I think I felt it would probably happen anyways. My ob that did my tubal reversal told us we might have miscarriages. I am happy that I now know I can get pregnant at least.
I think me and dh are feeling some relief because of school. I really don’t want to quit school. So I think we are going to try our best to not TTC tell February now. I haven’t started to bleed or anything yet. Although at this point I am in no hurry for the m/c to start since we won’t be TTC.
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August 19th, 2011, 09:17 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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((HUGS)) I'm sorry  I hope school gives you something to concentrate on.
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August 19th, 2011, 09:46 AM
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It's me
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Quote:
Originally Posted by .:Shortcake:.
((HUGS)) I'm sorry  I hope school gives you something to concentrate on.
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August 19th, 2011, 10:01 AM
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Super Mommy
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I am so sorry for your loss. I am going through the same thing right now. I had a miscarriage on Saturday, August 13.
I kind of knew it was going to happen as well because my FRER test started to gradually get lighter.....not darker. Please know that you are not alone.
(((HUGS)))
Dara
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August 19th, 2011, 10:16 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry
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August 19th, 2011, 10:24 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. From experience, I can only say that time will make this a bit easier.
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August 19th, 2011, 10:35 AM
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Quote:
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((HUGS)) I'm sorry  I hope school gives you something to concentrate on.
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August 19th, 2011, 10:36 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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I am sorry for your loss.
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August 19th, 2011, 10:41 AM
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***Staying Positive***
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Thanks ladies for the support it means a lot to me.
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August 19th, 2011, 11:06 AM
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so sorry to have to welcome you back, but I am happy that you have some comfort in knowing you can conceive after the reversal! I hope that everything works out for you as far as timing with school.
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August 19th, 2011, 11:22 AM
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So sorry you are going through this. Good luck with school.
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August 19th, 2011, 11:25 AM
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I'm sorry Jessica! No one is suppose to come back here.
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August 19th, 2011, 11:33 AM
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So sorry!
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August 19th, 2011, 11:47 AM
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so sorry for your loss.
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August 19th, 2011, 11:55 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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So sorry for your loss...
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August 19th, 2011, 12:29 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Oh no! I am so sorry!!! I hope that school goes well for you and that you get your sticky bean soon!
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August 19th, 2011, 01:35 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Sending Hugs.
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August 19th, 2011, 04:03 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry  Big hugs!
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August 19th, 2011, 05:45 PM
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Sending hugs your way! Wanted you to know I'm thinking of you!
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August 19th, 2011, 07:36 PM
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I am so sorry
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