Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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August 23rd, 2011, 03:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Any one track their cycle right after their m/c?
Did you O late or not at all that cycle?
I am on CD 18 with EWCM but still no sign of actually Oing.
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August 23rd, 2011, 03:58 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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After my later loss I didn't O after my loss. I actually had to have meds to bring on AF. After my early losses sometimes I did O right after and sometimes I didn't. ((HUGS)) I hope your body gets back to normal soon.
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August 23rd, 2011, 04:02 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2011
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Sounds exactly like my cycle right after my m/c...
Before I was pg I had a pretty regular 25 day cycle. After my m/c, AF arrived on CD 29 and I never O'd. I had CM a couple of different times, and even some twinges that felt like O pains. But I was temping and my temp never went up...
This cycle has been a little different. AF lasted quite a while, but I'm having tons of EWCM, cramping rather than twinges (which if I remember right is normal for me) and I think I'm Oing today... we'll see if the temps verify that over the next couple of days.
I'm trying not to have expectations though... from everything I've read and heard it can take a few cycles for your body to regulate after a loss... everyone is different and it's soooo hard to be patient!
Good luck and I hope things even out for you soon!!
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August 23rd, 2011, 04:57 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: California
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I did ovulate right after my first loss. 14 days exactly...but I never had AF because I got pregnant immediately. But, here I am again, because I had another loss, which just happened so I don't know how long it will take this time. I think everyone is different...as a matter of fact, even this m/c was very different for me than the last one. so...we will see. i hope your body goes back to normal quickly.
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August 23rd, 2011, 05:07 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm currently on CD24 in my cycle after my loss and so far no O. I have a feeling I might not O this cycle at all. I have had some EWCM and some twinges 2 days ago, but I just don't think I'm going to O this cycle.
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August 24th, 2011, 04:55 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I hate what a m/c does to our bodies. The loss is hard enough and then when things don't go back to normal right away, it feels like an extra slap in the face.
I did start charting right away and luckily I did ovulate. I know it doesn't happen for some women though and that really sucks. I hope that you do ovulate and your cycles return to normal!
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August 24th, 2011, 05:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Well i just started temping again yesterday and I know my temps are not close to Oing yet. So we will see what happens. Hoping AF will show and then move forward and O next cycle.
I guess it is a blessing to not be Oing as they don't want us to try this month because of the vaccine but we were anyways.
I go back to for acupuncture next Thursday so either way if I don't I hoping she can get my cycle going. We are starting herbs too next week too!
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August 24th, 2011, 05:46 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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After most of my losses it took 4 weeks for A/F to show and then 6 for first A/F
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August 24th, 2011, 05:50 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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[QUOTE=pepper73;24693362]I hate what a m/c does to our bodies. The loss is hard enough and then when things don't go back to normal right away, it feels like an extra slap in the face. QUOTE]
Ain't that the truth......
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August 24th, 2011, 05:52 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I did not O after my m/c. it took 25 days for AF to show up and then my next cycle was close to normal. I hope your body gets back to normal soon. A m/c is so terrible and on top of it all your body is out of whack.
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August 24th, 2011, 05:57 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by pepper73
I hate what a m/c does to our bodies. The loss is hard enough and then when things don't go back to normal right away, it feels like an extra slap in the face.
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This is exactly how I'm feeling right now. It's been really hard to pull myself out of hating my body.
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August 24th, 2011, 06:51 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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It is very hard not to hate your body for all of this!!
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August 25th, 2011, 11:53 PM
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NICU Nurse
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Location: Pennsylvania
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After my natural M/C at 6w5d I ended O'ing on schedule (I usually don't O till 20ish DPO.) I actually ended up getting pregnant. Guess you never know what your body may do. You can take a look at my FF chart...
33ffc6 Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com
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August 26th, 2011, 03:31 AM
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Waiting for our Miracle.
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It took me couple of months after each loss for my body to get back to normal. I hope your body gets back to normal fast.
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