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August 24th, 2011, 05:40 AM
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(So let me start the story with... my sister in law is due in early November and I was expected to be due in Sept....)
My DH parents invited my parents over for dinner... not sure why but I always get anxiety over it.... my mom comes in and I hear her saying to my SIL "look how big you are... If Julie (that's me ) didn't loss her baby then you would be about the same size..."
I about died! I was so upset that she even had to bring that up! I was heated but got over it quickly because I'm trying to stay positive... It just one of those things that you think..."Really? Is that even necessary?" But I survived... (Sigh) what can you do.....
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August 24th, 2011, 06:07 AM
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Oh geez! I'm sorry! That must have stung so much! Good for you for rising above it and staying positive though! I hope that you will get pregnant in no time and then you won't have to feel anxious about family gatherings anymore!
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August 24th, 2011, 06:11 AM
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OMG, I'm sorry, that was pretty bad. Good for you for staying positive though!
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August 24th, 2011, 06:29 AM
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WTH?!? Sorry but that would have been my response to that comment. Why in the world would she feel the need to say that? Sorry hun But hey, like you said, you survived
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August 24th, 2011, 06:40 AM
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Ugh I would have probably freaked out. That wasn't really called for and she shouldn't have said that. ((HUGS)) You did a lot better than I ever would have!
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August 24th, 2011, 10:05 AM
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Wow. I cannot believe that... I would be so upset. I would for sure say something!
Ditto to everyone who said they are glad your thinking positive! Giant hugs sweetie!
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