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August 25th, 2011, 11:08 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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AF showed this morning and I'm not taking it well at all. I am planning on having a few too many cocktails so I want to apologize ahead of time for any potential incoherent posts I may make. Once I'm done with this day of self-pity, I'll be fine. I just need to stew for a day.
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August 25th, 2011, 11:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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I was gonna ask if you were calling me out on something.......
Sorry AF showed! Have a drink fro me too! It's something I do every time she shows.
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August 25th, 2011, 11:22 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Delaware (the state!)
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Sorry to hear that! Have a drink for me too!
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August 25th, 2011, 11:31 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Maine
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Will do ladies!!! Happy to oblige!
Sam, you are the farthest thing away from a witch!!! I know you were kidding, but still! LOL!
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August 25th, 2011, 11:33 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: the mountain state
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I'm sorry
I know AF is coming for me tomorrow, and I plan on getting a bit sloshed - I haven't had a drink in over a year - I am so due for one of 6.
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August 25th, 2011, 11:33 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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((HUGS)) Don't feel bad when she shows I always have one too many  Last night I had a few with my bubble bath!
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August 25th, 2011, 11:38 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Dallas, TX
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I'm so sorry  Have a drink for me as well since even though I have no hope for this cycle I still can't indulge until the witch actually shows.
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August 25th, 2011, 11:40 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Tennessee
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I am so sorry. The witch it too mean. Go ahead and endulge.
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August 25th, 2011, 11:46 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2011
Location: Montana
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Boo on the mean witch!!
I don't blame you at all and if it was me I'd probably use it as an excuse to just go nuts!!
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August 25th, 2011, 11:49 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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DH always knows when AF arrives because I crack open a bottle of wine and indulge myself   Self-medicating
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August 25th, 2011, 12:00 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Maine
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I knew you all would understand! I was totally freaking out this morning when she showed and I didn't have my JM ladies! I mentioned to Katie that I needed my support group and it is so true. It really is a support group. I talked to my BF and he tries to understand and comfort me but he can't truly get it. And he can't comfort me, no matter what. It's not his fault at all and I totally appreciate his efforts, but only you all really understand and can truly relate. I kind of feel bad for him today because the weather is bad and he can't go out on his lobster boat with this wind...so he is stuck with me being all emotional and soon to be intoxicated. Oh well...I've dealt with him drunk on more than enough occasions so it's his turn now! I think what's hit me the hardest this time around is the fact that my 38th birthday is just in a couple of weeks and I am not going to be pregnant so I'm totally dreading it.
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August 25th, 2011, 12:09 PM
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Praying 4 a miracle
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Join Date: Jun 2011
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Hope that you will manage to kick that aweful witch in the behind and start ur 38th year with a bang soon after xxxx
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August 25th, 2011, 12:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Ohio
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Im sorry she showed
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August 25th, 2011, 01:42 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Quote:
Originally Posted by pepper73
I knew you all would understand! I was totally freaking out this morning when she showed and I didn't have my JM ladies! I mentioned to Katie that I needed my support group and it is so true. It really is a support group. I talked to my BF and he tries to understand and comfort me but he can't truly get it. And he can't comfort me, no matter what. It's not his fault at all and I totally appreciate his efforts, but only you all really understand and can truly relate. I kind of feel bad for him today because the weather is bad and he can't go out on his lobster boat with this wind...so he is stuck with me being all emotional and soon to be intoxicated. Oh well...I've dealt with him drunk on more than enough occasions so it's his turn now! I think what's hit me the hardest this time around is the fact that my 38th birthday is just in a couple of weeks and I am not going to be pregnant so I'm totally dreading it.
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I truly do look at you ladies like Family. I have been on this board for 2 1/2 years and throughout that time I know that no matter what your all here from me and each other.
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August 25th, 2011, 02:12 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Maine
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Originally Posted by .:Shortcake:.
I truly do look at you ladies like Family. I have been on this board for 2 1/2 years and throughout that time I know that no matter what your all here from me and each other.
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I hate that you've been here this long Katie...but at the same time, I'm glad because I've had the chance to get to know you. One thing for sure is that you deserve to graduate...and soon! I just hope that you'll still come back to cheer the rest of us on, as I'm sure you will!
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August 25th, 2011, 02:21 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Quote:
Originally Posted by pepper73
I hate that you've been here this long Katie...but at the same time, I'm glad because I've had the chance to get to know you. One thing for sure is that you deserve to graduate...and soon! I just hope that you'll still come back to cheer the rest of us on, as I'm sure you will!
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I will be (hopefully as a grad) and I WILL watch each and every one of you graduate here with your rainbow babies!
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August 26th, 2011, 04:56 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Maine
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Originally Posted by .:Shortcake:.
I will be (hopefully as a grad) and I WILL watch each and every one of you graduate here with your rainbow babies!
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You'll be a great cheerleader for us!!
Well, I never ended up getting drunk like I planned. I hung out with my brother and then went to bed early. I got an amazing night's sleep though and that felt great. So now I'm well-rested with no hangover. I think I made the right decision!
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August 26th, 2011, 06:34 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Sep 2008
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well good for you! I have noticed that if I plan to get drunk- I don't. If I plan on having one or two small drinks, I end up tipsy. Been a long time since I was really drunk.
Oh and since I'm pagan, that's why the joke about calling me out. A lot of pagans are classified as witches  !
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Waiting for our ELF to get here!
Thank you .:Shortcake:.!! for my awesome siggy!
My Forever Babies- 07/20087.5 weeks, 10/2008 4.5 weeks 12/2008 4 weeks 06/2009 our twin 7.5 weeks 08/2010 4 weeks 10/2010 Mr. Spud 9.5 weeks 04/2011 twins 6 weeks
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August 26th, 2011, 06:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Location: New Jersey
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Boo! I'm sorry the witch showed.
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August 26th, 2011, 07:57 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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Quote:
Originally Posted by pepper73
You'll be a great cheerleader for us!!
Well, I never ended up getting drunk like I planned. I hung out with my brother and then went to bed early. I got an amazing night's sleep though and that felt great. So now I'm well-rested with no hangover. I think I made the right decision! 
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Glad your happy with your decision  A good night's sleep can do wonders!
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