Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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August 28th, 2011, 10:51 AM
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We had just gotten back from camping last Sunday, which was also our anniversary... it was a not so great day and I got my BFP OPK which didn't mean squat since we didn't end up doing anything... so it would be a cold chance for a baby to have been made this cycle.
DH is all about making a baby... I'm indifferent maybe because all I've been thru, going thru. Guess I best step up my game too huh? Haven't even really grieved my LO we just lost or our wee one who would have been due TODAY.
Man I could have been holding our little one today!
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August 28th, 2011, 10:58 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry hun  I'm dreading the EDD already too......
Try when you feel ready! I know if I would've felt even half as bad as I did last month we most definitely wouldn't be trying again so soon. It's so important for you to heal emotionally, although I truly believe you will never be the same after a loss. It just becomes a part of you
(((HUGS)))
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August 28th, 2011, 11:01 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 I hope that you are able to allow yourself to grieve. I hate that all of us on here have EDDs that never came to be. It is truly unfair. I hope you take care of yourself today. Do something special just for you.
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August 28th, 2011, 11:26 AM
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I'm so sorry Celena! It's so unfair! Love you! 
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August 28th, 2011, 11:52 AM
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((HUGS)) T&P with you. EDD's are always so hard
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August 28th, 2011, 12:33 PM
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praying for our rainbow
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*hugS* hun, today was my edd too. It is def hard.
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August 28th, 2011, 01:45 PM
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Sending you lots of hugs.
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August 28th, 2011, 02:16 PM
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I'm so sorry Celena!!! I know in a way what ur feeling. My EDD was last Tuesday and I spent all day going round like a maniac. I felt that if I had to stop for a second my world would have crashed out!
Hope that now that it has passed your days will be a little less difficult to deal with hugs xxxx
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August 28th, 2011, 02:25 PM
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 I am so sorry honey. Love you tons - wish I could take your pain away.
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August 28th, 2011, 03:03 PM
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I am so sorry
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August 28th, 2011, 03:48 PM
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I love you too! It's so past your turn now! Hang in there and know we are all cheering you on! Love ya!
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August 28th, 2011, 04:05 PM
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Thinking of you Celena, and your lo today. When your ready, it will be the perfect timing....I think your taking some time right now mentally is trully the best for you. Your always in my heart and on my mind..hugs to you girl!
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August 28th, 2011, 05:25 PM
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HUGS Celena!!! Just remember that miracles happen when you least expect them.
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August 28th, 2011, 05:53 PM
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Celena I'm so sorry. I wish there was something I could do to help. Sending lots of Hugs.
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August 28th, 2011, 08:22 PM
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I am so sorry you have had so many losses It just sucks!
it is so hard to get to those dates too...knowing what could have been. I hate that any of us have to go through it.
I think it is normal not to grieve sometimes. I haven't really grieved much for the last one we lost but every now and then it just hits me out of nowhere literally
Thinking of you <3
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August 28th, 2011, 11:43 PM
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I am so sorry sweetie. EDD are hard especially when you are going through another loss. Take some time to heal. That is ok.
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August 29th, 2011, 04:25 AM
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just wanted to offer some *hugs*
I'm sorry for all you've been through.
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August 29th, 2011, 06:23 AM
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Aww Celena- giant
EDD's are just sucky. Hope you can go get DH though since you day have a day or two window after the positive opk......
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August 29th, 2011, 07:22 AM
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Big Fat Hugssssss to you!
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