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August 31st, 2011, 06:01 PM
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With every twinge, cramp, gas bubble I start second guessing everything. It doesn't help that the progesterone is making me feel raw, so that is adding to the anxiety.
I think I'm going to go crazy till I know one way or the other. M/c's are more 'normal' for me than succesful pregnancies. It's hard to be positive when your more familiar with failure.
Ugh! At least I'm tired, that's a good sign, plus I'm still nauseous. Going to bed early.
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August 31st, 2011, 06:18 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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It's totally understandable that you'd be second-guessing every little thing. I know I'll be the same when I get my BFP. It is SO unfair that a loss is the norm for you. Your symptoms are good signs in my opinion! I hope they give you some assurance that this one is here to stay!!
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August 31st, 2011, 08:05 PM
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*hugs* I hope everything checks out ok and this is it for you!
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August 31st, 2011, 08:24 PM
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I hope you get great numbers!!
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August 31st, 2011, 09:50 PM
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The first trimester is the worst. I hope it flies by without complications and you can start enjoying your pregnancy soon.
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September 1st, 2011, 12:59 AM
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*hugs* hope that you are feeling a bit better now (worry wise)
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September 1st, 2011, 03:27 AM
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((HUGS)) I know what you mean about m/c being a "normal" for you. I feel the same way. Try to enjoy every moment of your pregnancy. I have everything crossed that this is your rainbow baby hun!
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September 1st, 2011, 05:23 AM
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Positive thoughts otherwise you will drive yourself crazy!!!!!
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September 1st, 2011, 06:22 AM
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Thanks ladies! I think I woke up twice last night wondering if I was bleeding. I have never bleed early- it always waits till I miss my period
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September 1st, 2011, 06:25 AM
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I am sending positive thoughts your way!! I hate the uneasiness of early pregnancy!!
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September 1st, 2011, 06:27 AM
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The first trimester is the worst... Every little twinge drives one into a state of panic.
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September 1st, 2011, 07:32 AM
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UGH! I know how you feel, hope you can relax soon and enjoy the pg! HUGS!!
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September 1st, 2011, 07:34 AM
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Im sorry Sam.
I am in the same boat as you... but I have been having spotting.
the thing that worrys me is my boobs are not hurting... but I am feeling sick.
with 4 out of 6 pregnancys now my boob were typically killing me at this point.
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September 1st, 2011, 12:06 PM
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I had spotting for weeks at the beginning of this pregnancy. I know everyone is different, just saying that it can be normal.
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September 1st, 2011, 12:40 PM
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Good luck sam! I really hope everything goes SO smooth for you and your first trimester flies by! 
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September 1st, 2011, 12:52 PM
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Sam I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. I'm right there with you. Every little twinge or cramp and I think is this it. I hope the first trimester flies by for you.
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September 1st, 2011, 01:55 PM
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I have my fingers crossed for you!!!
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September 1st, 2011, 02:14 PM
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Thanks everyone. I think I'm just going to have to deal with it. I think the biggest problem is the #1 pregnancy symptom (good ol' constipation) I get is rearing it's head. And that while it should be comforting, makes me feel like crap and also makes me all crampy.
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September 2nd, 2011, 04:26 AM
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Sam, I hate that you feel M/c's are more normal for you. I hope you get great numbers. I have everything crossed that this is your rainbow baby.
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September 2nd, 2011, 04:36 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I just want to reiterate everyone elses thoughts that what you are feeling is "normal." Although I wasn't PG last cycle, during the 2WW I stopped exercising for fear that I would cause some problems. I knew in my head it was silly but at the same time I think anyone who has ever experienced a loss also looses the carefree innocence that people who never had a loss have.
With DS I never once thought about miscarriage. I took it in stride, although it took us a good year to concieve him. Since the loss, I worry about how I will react when the time comes again. I'm sure I'd be questioning everything as well hun!
I agree with everyone else--have positive thoughts! The power of your mind is incredible! Maybe do some visualization each day, think of how healthy your baby is, imagine baby burrowing deep in your uterus, etc. We are all here to cheer you and this pregnancy on
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