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  #1  
September 8th, 2011, 11:54 AM
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Hi Ladies, I am coming back "home" after an absence. So many new faces out there...and that's a good thing because it reminds me how many "graduates" have left this board.

A little about me....we had 2 losses before finally getting pregnant with our son. Those losses changed me forever. There was the before and now the after. I was in a really dark hole after my second loss and this board help me keep my sanity.

Anyway, we are ready to TTC #2. It's a very scary thing for me....to know that losses happen and can happen again. With Emmett, I couldn't really embrace the pregnancy until I was almost 6 months pregnant.....we hid the pregnancy from almost everyone because I was too scared. I have PCOS and a minor clotting diagnosis (MTHFR) working against me but I won't let those get me down!

I have a journal on this board if you want to read more about my story.

Now I just need a cycle ticker, right?
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September 8th, 2011, 12:05 PM
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holy crud Liz, I just rejoined here too and you turn up! Great to see you back here - it would be awesome to end up in a DDC with you this time around!!!

And sheesh Emmett is a cutiepie! You'll have to fill us in on how everything is going with you these days too....

You def. do need a ticker (i'm living vicariously since i'm not temping this go around) and where are you in your cycle now???
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September 8th, 2011, 01:37 PM
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Welcome back! GOod Luck TTC!!
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September 8th, 2011, 01:41 PM
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welcome back - hope it is a short journey for you.

I also have PCOS - so far ttc this time around is going about as well as when we ttc'ed out first. :/
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September 9th, 2011, 03:05 AM
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Hi there!! I'm so sorry about your losses! It is a horrible thing to go through! I totally agree about the ladies on this board helping with the whole recovery process. I am so grateful to have found JM!

I wish you the best of luck TTC your second!
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September 9th, 2011, 03:23 AM
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Welcome back Liz! I remember you from before! I hope your journey is short and sweet again
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September 9th, 2011, 06:59 AM
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Welcome back. I'm sort of new to JM, but have had 2 losses, one before DD was born and one this past August. Hope your stay is short!
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September 9th, 2011, 07:20 AM
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Howdy!Nice to meet you! I think that I would not tell anyone till 6 month too! So scary after a loss...
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September 9th, 2011, 07:23 AM
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Welcome! I love this quote below. That is exactly how I feel after my loss.

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Those losses changed me forever. There was the before and now the after.
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September 9th, 2011, 09:42 AM
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Welcome back Liz!! Hope you don't have to wait long! It's funny that so many of us are back for #2!
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September 11th, 2011, 07:37 PM
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So cool that May DDC seems to be filling up!! I am about CD 8 right nownso we don't even get to start trying for at least another week (long cycles). Hi to everyone!
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September 11th, 2011, 08:07 PM
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HI Liz - I totally remember you! Hope your journey here is short. Lots of BFP dust to you.
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September 12th, 2011, 08:02 AM
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How's this cycle going? Are you charting or using OPK's?
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September 13th, 2011, 11:08 AM
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No charting, probably no OPKs. I'm counting this as my first cycle, but mostly I'm just trying to see how long my cycles actually are. I made my ovulation ticker based on my cycles when we got pregnant with E (so, yeah, they could be way off).
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September 13th, 2011, 11:27 AM
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Hi! I too hope that your stay here will be short
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Stopped all medical treatment, waiting until March 2013to try IVF. Maybe luck will be on our side and we manage to make a small miracle on our own...... Forever missing our two little previous miracles.
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September 14th, 2011, 02:02 PM
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Hey there Liz! I just started lurking here because we will probably start ttc again after the first of the year! Emmit is so adorable! I cannot believe I am planning Bourne's first Birthday party already.
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September 14th, 2011, 04:14 PM
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Kat - you are going to try again? How exciting!! Are you going to do IVF or try without meds for a while. Wow - He is almost 1 already?
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September 14th, 2011, 05:00 PM
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I remember you Kat! Congrats on your sweet little guy, our boys have the same middle name. I love seeing all the faces come back around (of course I'm always kinda sad that it's here versus the "I don't have to TTC , I just think it and it happens" board). haha.
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