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September 9th, 2011, 03:19 AM
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Usually I am not one who gets gaga over dreams but this has confused me a bit.

Last year, two months before i got preg I dreams that I was givign birth to a baby - not sure if it was a girl or a boy, but something made me feel that the baby wouldn't last long before it died. Two months later i got preg and lost the baby after two months something.

Two months ago I dreamt that I had just given birth to a baby boy. The baby was safe and sound and I couldn't stop kissing and cuddling him. Last night I dreamt that I had a baby boy - around 4/5months and that I was trying to feed him but this baby did not want to be fed (if I remember correctly)

Is it a case of me doing my head in? Just wishing to much for a baby? Or since one of the last things I wished for last night before sleeping was a baby this subconsciously affected my dreams?

In a way this is giving me some hope because this time in both dreams I felt like I was going to get to keep my baby, unlike during the first dream.
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September 9th, 2011, 03:29 AM
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I dream of being pregnant and giving birth often. I think it's just your mind telling you how badly you want something.
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September 9th, 2011, 03:36 AM
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ugh i hate dreams
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September 9th, 2011, 06:48 AM
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I hope your dream comes true for you! I hope mine don't, otherwise we should all watch for ginormous black spiders that are bigger than a house - lol! Sorry, just trying to lighten the mood

I really do hope that it comes true for you!
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September 9th, 2011, 07:33 AM
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Lol I hope that urs never come true! I'ld rather deal with baby dreams than spiders - whatever their size!
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September 9th, 2011, 07:34 AM
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I dream of being pregnant and giving birth often. I think it's just your mind telling you how badly you want something.
A lot of times dreams aren't so literal but I think in this case it is because it occupies so much of our conscious and it spills into our subconscious.

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I hope your dream comes true for you! I hope mine don't, otherwise we should all watch for ginormous black spiders that are bigger than a house - lol! Sorry, just trying to lighten the mood

I really do hope that it comes true for you!
OMG! EEEK!! That sounds like my worst nightmare!
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September 9th, 2011, 07:36 AM
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What freaked me out was that it was so vivid. I could actually feel the baby in my hands.

When it happened last year I did get preg, so maybe this might turn into a good omen (keeping everything crossed)
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September 9th, 2011, 08:49 AM
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When it happened last year I did get preg, so maybe this might turn into a good omen (keeping everything crossed)
Me too, for you!
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September 9th, 2011, 09:16 AM
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I really do not want to wish for something that is 99% impossible. I do not want to raise my hopes up for nothing.

ugh why does it have to be this difficult?
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September 9th, 2011, 09:35 AM
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I hope it is a good sign. Just before I found out with all of my pregnancies I had BFP or pregnancy/delivery dreams.

But I have had them again recently, I think it is just my brain reminding me in my sleep what my heart desires - as if I didn't already know.
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September 9th, 2011, 09:44 AM
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I think it is just my brain reminding me in my sleep what my heart desires - as if I didn't already know.
it sucks doesn't it? but at least in a parallel world for a few mins we do have a baby

hopefully we'll do it
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September 9th, 2011, 09:50 AM
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I agree I think it's just our subconscious speaking up about or desires and fears. I have had vivid dreams of walking with a daughter looking at a college, she looked a lot like Liv Tyler
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September 9th, 2011, 09:53 AM
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lol maybe ur going to adopt liv tyler

or else ur baking a girl in there
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September 9th, 2011, 05:19 PM
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I've had them every now and then without it meaning anyting but the last time I had a positive pregnancy test dream I was definitely pregnant. My secretary at work also told me she dreamed I was pregnant and she was right (but I never told her because it ended in loss). So who knows.
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