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Husband's niece is pregnant, news that stings (loss ment too)


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September 12th, 2011, 06:07 AM
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So, my husbands folks call this weekend to say that his niece is pregnant and due on the day mine would have been born. Holy-youknowwhat, I'm hurt. Ugh! I want so be blasé about it or happy like most folks.....but I'm just down right mad and feel so inept at being a woman.
I can't be supportive, I can't be there for her emotionally, I can't even make babies.....what part of me even makes me a woman? I feel so alien to my own self. This whole ttc process is making me crazy-town.
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September 12th, 2011, 06:12 AM
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Big HUGS sweetie. That is hard, I'm so sorry This whole process makes most of us a little (or a lot) crazy if it helps any
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((HUGS)) I think it stings worse when it's family around the same time and you see them.
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September 12th, 2011, 10:20 AM
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September 12th, 2011, 12:41 PM
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:hugs: Im so sorry
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September 13th, 2011, 03:58 AM
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I'm so sorry! I totally understand the pain. It is really hard. Give yourself the time to cry, scream, punch pillows...whatever you need to do for yourself. You have every right to feel hurt.
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