Problem with this Group's name..."TTCAL" Just my thougs and observations

Samoy · #1 September 12th, 2011, 10:35 AM

I'm having a problem with this group's name, at least the first word. I believe words are powerful and eventually become your reality.

The word, "trying" means always in search of and probably never attaining. For instance: I'm trying to stop smoking, drinking, or trying to get to the store before it closes. Every sentence has a loop hole, for lack of a better word, for an out or a way to not accomplish your goal.

This is just my observation of certain words that I am working out of my vocabulary.

Moreover, it could where I am with all aspects of my life, where I am at the doors knocking. I can't try. I have it, there is no other options for me but to make all those options mine, through all my fears, fears, fears, fears and fears.

I'm not trying. I can't. I am. So, that's my problem with the word "trying." We ALL are conceiving after loss. No more losses. That's the end of that.

Everyone gets a big baby bump filled with a healthy baby/babies.

Have a wonderful day and an amazing week!

terajet · #2 September 12th, 2011, 10:43 AM

Thumbs up for being so positive. I wish everyone here gets their rainbow baby soon.

Leanne78 · #3 September 12th, 2011, 10:44 AM

You're going to screw up our Acronym!

j/k

Shadeauxe · #4 September 12th, 2011, 11:39 AM

So, you're like Yoda, "Do or do not. There is no try."

.:Shortcake:. · #5 September 12th, 2011, 11:42 AM

For me it is "try" you can't just say hey I want to be pregnant all you can do is try to better your chances by doing certain things. I do get what you mean though

Shadeauxe · #6 September 12th, 2011, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by .:Shortcake:.

For me it is "try" you can't just say hey I want to be pregnant all you can do is try to better your chances by doing certain things. I do get what you mean though

Yoda weeps. Live on the dark side of the force, you must. Go now I will. Stop talking like this I cannot.

Leanne78 · #7 September 12th, 2011, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Shadeauxe

Yoda weeps. Live on the dark side of the force, you must. Go now I will. Stop talking like this I can not.

Bwahaha!

doremi · #8 September 12th, 2011, 02:03 PM

To me, "trying" is a positive thing. It means you are continuing to fight for what you really truly want, a healthy baby. It means that no matter what happens, you're not giving up on that dream, you're continuing to move forward.

humnck · #9 September 12th, 2011, 07:37 PM

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Originally Posted by doremi

To me, "trying" is a positive thing. It means you are continuing to fight for what you really truly want, a healthy baby. It means that no matter what happens, you're not giving up on that dream, you're continuing to move forward.

3Sapphires · #10 September 12th, 2011, 07:52 PM

I ditto Sarah.

like the age old adage - if at first you don't succeed, try, try again.

I keep falling off the horse, but keep picking myself up and getting back in the saddle again.

pepper73 · #11 September 13th, 2011, 04:28 AM

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Originally Posted by doremi

To me, "trying" is a positive thing. It means you are continuing to fight for what you really truly want, a healthy baby. It means that no matter what happens, you're not giving up on that dream, you're continuing to move forward.

This is how I think about it too. It's more of a proactive thing than a fruitless search for something for me. Although, I do totally see where your coming from Samoy. Thank you for giving us another perspective to think about.