[~*Kel*~]

I am sorry to just join this board and start whining in my second post but I know you will all understand. I have at least 6 people from my old ddc on my FB page along with another 8 or so people who are at various stages of pregnancy. I am sick and tired of logging on to FB and seeing all of the baby updates. Every single morning there is at least two and to be frank it pi$$es me off because I should be posting those things along with them and I can't. I am genuinely happy for every one of them, but that doesn't take the stinging away. DH told me this morning that I will have my chance soon enough, but my chance should be now and it's not, and it sucks. I just want my baby back.

Whine over, thanks for listening.

[Shadeauxe]

Yeah, it does suck. Unfortunately, pregnant people are everywhere. It's like an infestation you only notice when you're no longer pregnant, but you want to be.

[joanna26]

Originally Posted by Shadeauxe

Yeah, it does suck. Unfortunately, pregnant people are everywhere. It's like an infestation you only notice when you're no longer pregnant, but you want to be.

Exactly!

[humnck]

I feel the same way, it sucks! When I lost my baby, I removed the people from my old DDC board because I knew it would hurt too much, I still lurk on the board on occasion to make sure everyone there is doing well, because I do want them to have healthy babies, but it isn't fair that I am not able to as well! I can totally relate - someone posted a complaint about being pg the other day and without thinking, I posted on her status, I wish I was feeling those kicks (she was complaining that the baby was moving too much...really?!), anyways, that made her stop, for now anyways!

YOu will have your time, but it does suck that it isn't now! HUGS!!!!! I hope your time comes really, really soon!!

[.:Shortcake:.]

Ditto Courtney. However with facebook if it really bothers you, you can choose the ignore posts from these certain someones. I know for me it doesn't bother me anymore because I'm used to it but at first I blocked their status updates so I didn't have to see it. ((HUGS))

[KaiyaRae'sMomma]

dito Katie. you could block their posts for a bit, just until you are ready again. I hope you get your rainbow baby soon.

[(Calebs_Momma)]

Ditto all pp, (hugs)

[StaceygirlPa]

I have to agree with the other post. I am sorry for your lost. Hugs.

[Micksbabe]

I am sorry I totally understand how you are feeling. I just had 3 IRL friends announce their pregnancies, two of them to,d me at our girls nightout on Saturday (I had to literally go to the bathroom and take a minute) I couldnt even say congrats because I was just in shock ( one has a 3 year old, a 16 month old and doesn't even know how far along she is because she hasn't gotten normal pp AF) it sucks so bad. I am coming up n my 3rd Due date and I am not pregnant yet.......depressing.

My DH says the same things to me but they don't understand. I keep asking him when he felt the connection to our DD and he says when he held her and I try to explain that I felt that way about all our babies when I saw those 2 lines on the test, that has helped him to stop making the "when the time is right it will happen " comments!!

Big hugs

[kaylakay]

I understand completely how you feel sweetie. I feel like this everyday. I know personally 10 pregnant women. I delete mostly all pregnant people off of Facebook. I say mostly because I do have a couple good friends who are or just had their babies and yes I am happy for them and I do think their babies are gorgeous it hurts so much. Nobody really knows about my losses... a couple really close friends and family and thats it. I am pretty closed about it so people dont realize when they post "Ugh I am so tired and my baby needs to stop kicking me when Im trying to sleep" or something like that how badly it does hurt. I would love to feel that even if I was tired. After miscarriage I think we will appreciate our babies more and even the less fun side of pregnancy because we will think "Im pregnant and I refuse to take this for granted" I know its hard honey, but no matter what we do pregnant people will always be EVERYWHERE.

Big, big, big hugs.

[cheeky_monkey]

Big hugs!!!!! Hope that ur rainbow baby arrives soon. I know what you are feeling. Today on the first day back to work the only person who knows what we are going through told me my daughter is pregnant you know - she's three months' I felt like throwing up. I was trapped and could not even go to the bathroom.

You have the choice - if you have the gutz to block them then do it

[pepper73]

I'm so sorry! I totally get where you're coming from. It does hurt....a lot! I agree with the others that you can block their posts for a while. The pregnancy updates don't hurt me as much (although they still hurt) as the complaints. The complaints just make me downright angry.

Originally Posted by kaylakay

After miscarriage I think we will appreciate our babies more and even the less fun side of pregnancy because we will think "Im pregnant and I refuse to take this for granted"

Absolutely!!!

[kelbert]

I am sorry it sucks so bad One of my first posts on this board was a pretty "rant filled" one. I know too many pregnant people. So many of them have gotten pregnant and had babies and I all I have to show is two m/cs. Today I had my D&C AND got a baby shower invite in the mail. NICE!

Oh and I "hid" a lot of people on FB. It helps!