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October 3rd, 2011, 06:47 AM
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It has been one year today since the loss of DH's and my first pregnancy together. It has also been one year since I joined this board (TTCAL). Wow. We have now been TTC for 3 1/2 years with 2 losses. It hurts.

I was one of the ones who never thought that this would happen to me. I had 2 previous pregnancies before my first loss that produced my 2 beautiful children. Now I cannot get pregnant. I have also been scammed by a medical clinic who made us believe that IVF would be our only option and took us for thousands of dollars.

Last year we lost our first baby a day before our wedding anniversary. Tomorrow is also our 3 year wedding anniversary (5 years together, 3 years married). Yesterday we got a call that DH's dad had a stroke. I am beginning to believe that our anniversary is jinxed.

Anyway, it just sucks being here (even though I care a lot about a lot of you ladies), and I just needed to vent and mope around today. I am feeling kind of down.

Bleh.
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October 3rd, 2011, 07:03 AM
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Hugs. That's all I can offer......
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October 3rd, 2011, 07:13 AM
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I hope things get better for you - happy 3 yr anniversary a little early, try to enjoy the day.

I hope DH's dad is doing better!!
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October 3rd, 2011, 07:13 AM
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Lindsey I am so very sorry for all you have been through. It's time for you to to get your rainbow baby and graduate! I pray that it happens really soon for you.
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October 3rd, 2011, 08:02 AM
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October 3rd, 2011, 08:15 AM
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I'm so sorry....Sending you lots of hugs.
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October 3rd, 2011, 08:49 AM
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Lindsey I am so very sorry for all you have been through. It's time for you to to get your rainbow baby and graduate! I pray that it happens really soon for you.
The same goes for you Katie! We have been here way too long. I have seen people get pregnant and already give birth. I feel left behind in the dust. Not that I dislike these ladies for that, I am just wallowing around in my self pity.
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October 3rd, 2011, 08:56 AM
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You are so not alone... I feel like I'm in the dust too! If seen people with a loss and then were able to get pregnant soon after... I'm at 7 month to date.... I just can't believe how time flies...!
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October 3rd, 2011, 08:57 AM
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October 3rd, 2011, 09:25 AM
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Lindsey I am so very sorry for all you have been through. It's time for you to to get your rainbow baby and graduate! I pray that it happens really soon for you.
Exactly what I was going to say! Lindsey, I know it will happen for you! You are a good person and you have amazing things coming your way! I'm sure of it!! Happy Anniversary to you and your DH! I know thing may seem cursed (I feel that way all the time) but you will have your dreams come true! I'm also sending thoughts and prayers that your DH's father has a full recovery!
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October 3rd, 2011, 09:37 AM
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First Happy early Anniversary to you and your Dh. Sending you lots of hugs. Don't loose faith. I know how you feel about people leaving and having their babies while you still sit here. I have been in your shoes. I feel you are going to have your rainbow baby.
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October 3rd, 2011, 10:17 AM
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I am so sorry! I know you have been through a lot lately. I also had a hard time with a first angel anniversary ....

Im praying for you. I hope you get what you a perfectly healthy rainbow baby.
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October 3rd, 2011, 11:29 AM
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October 3rd, 2011, 12:02 PM
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Thanks again ladies. Hopefully soon for us. Hopefully soon.
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