[bdir]

Hi, I am Brooke. Mother to two Parker 3½ and McKenzie 2. I just experienced my 2nd miscarriage over the weekend. I had a miscarriage before both of my children, then two healthy pregnancies, now another miscarriage. I just don't know how to feel. One minute I am fine, and the next I am balling my eyes out. I am trying really hard to look at this and say God has a plan. My husband definetly wants to try again, and I am scared. Throughout all my pregnancies I am a wreck. I know how lucky I am to have two healthy children.

[Pitridge]

I'm so sorry about your loss.......everyone is ready at different times, my humble advise is that you will know when you are ready, take time to heal, physically and emotionally. HUGS

[StaceygirlPa]

I am sorry for you loss. The ladies on here are wonderful. I don't know how I would have made it through the last couple of years without these ladies.

[acchickpea]

[JulieMc]

So sorry you are going through this.

[humnck]

SS you are going through this! I had a loss before my DD and one in August. It's the hardest thing I have had to go through and it hurts and it sucks! Time has been very healing for me. Hang in there, it gets better, everyone has to heal in their own way. The ladies here have been wonderful!

[kaylakay]

That is completely normal with losses. My first loss was over a year ago and my last loss was clear in January and still I will randomly cry, randomly feel depressed, etc and I think I always will. That was my child I lost and there is nothing that can fill that. I hope you get your sticky BFP soon. Take your time to heal physically and emotionally. If you have any questions or need anything you let us know. The ladies on here are amazing!

[Ana*Addey*OliveMommy]

Sorry you are going through this right now. Sorry for your loss. Glad you found us.

[Nia1978]

I'm sorry for your loss . It's a hard thing to go through but it gets easier to deal will.

[.:Shortcake:.]

((HUGS)) I am so very sorry for your loss. My advice is allow yourself to heal. Grieve the loss of your baby and make sure your ready both emotionally as well as physically before you try. The ladies here are amazing and I hope you find the support you need here.

[doremi]

I'm sorry you are joining the board we all wish we didn't ever have to join! Welcome, and I hope you find the support and comfort you need here. Allow yourself to experience whatever emotions you need to in order to come out on the other side. We've all been there, but the loss experience is so completely personal, and everyone handles it differently.

[lindsey2000k]

I am so sorry.

[tobi4]

Im so sorry for your loss. The ladies of ttcal are always here and have experienced almost anything you need to talk about. Its a good place to be, (not that anyone wishes to be here). I felt more comfortable talking here than I did anywhere else in my life. I hope ttcal is all that for you as well. Good luck on your future journey. I hope all your dreams come true....

[pepper73]

Hi and welcome to TTCAL! I am so sorry for your losses! Even though you have 2 healthy children, nothing can take away the pain of losing one. Embrace the children you have, and grieve for your angels. Take the time you need. If you aren't ready emotionally to TTC again, then wait. You will know when it's time. I'm glad your DH is on board and it seems like he will be a great support system when you do TTC again. The ladies here are amazing for support as well. I honestly don't know what I would do without them. It is like a family and we are all here to help you when you need it!

[Blue_fire]

So sorry for your losses. There is no set grieving time. Be kind and good to yourself.