After DH's first SA showed low numbers (50% of normal) but fine motility and quality he made an appt with a male fertility specialist. Finally had that appt last week (this guy is really hard to see) and he ordered a new SA (apparently he doesn't trust the original lab). The results were horrible. Numbers and motility were fine this time but there were 0% normal sperm. 0%

Plus his bloodwork showed that several of his hormone levels were out of whack. From what I can find on Google, this combination appears to indicate testicular failure
Anyway, for reasons which remain a mystery to me this doctor mails you test results (via snail-mail) rather than calling you. And the letter indicated that he wants to do another SA in 3-4 weeks before talking about treatment options. So we have so many questions but will not get any answers for another month. For the first time I am beginning to wonder if I will ever get my rainbow baby