Spice it up!

.:Shortcake:. · #1 October 11th, 2011, 11:37 AM

What are things you do to keep the spice alive for you and your DH while TTC?

humnck · #2 October 11th, 2011, 11:39 AM

I was just wondering about this from others - I tried the old trick I did before, didn't work this time, wearing a jersey and that is it

I think I may have to pull out the good old fashioned lingerie trick...lol! "slip into something more comfortable" - hehehehe!!

I need some adivce too

junie22 · #3 October 11th, 2011, 11:45 AM

I don't really have to spice it up too much. DH is all over me all the time!

.:Shortcake:. · #4 October 11th, 2011, 11:51 AM

Things that usually work for me:

Doing it other places than the bedroom. DH will go into the bathroom to get a shower and I will join him

Surprising! I'll slip into something sexy and surprise him wherever he is in the house. Also surprising them when they first get home works too!

Ummm I know there are more but I'll try to add some later!

WoahMama83 · #5 October 11th, 2011, 11:53 AM

I've been wondering about this too. Most of the time it feels more like a chore and it's boring lol. I need help!

3Sapphires · #6 October 11th, 2011, 12:27 PM

I have been trying, but nothing seems to be working, but we are both so tired all the time, that probably doesn't help.

last cycle was awful. we had a few major flaccid fails.

I need some help.

humnck · #7 October 11th, 2011, 01:09 PM

It is so hard when you are both busy and tired...since DH has started back at school, he gets home kind of late, eats dinner (although sometimes he doesn't get to eat first...haha!).

The element of surprise is the best - that is how I did the jersey...I was just sitting on the couch in nothing but that when he got home

He has a very late meeting tonight and probably won't get home until around 10:30...he sometimes likes to "wake me up" in the middle of the night...haha! Problem is, I can't always go back to sleep after that

Doodle_Jr. · #8 October 11th, 2011, 01:34 PM

DH works all over the city and has days where he doesn't have to be back at the office until a certain time so we take advantage of that. It coincides with DD's nap time!

*SamF* · #9 October 11th, 2011, 01:38 PM

marital aides - and shopping for them together can really get him revved up.

LindseyE117 · #10 October 11th, 2011, 03:18 PM

Surprises like sneaking in on him in the shower and *cough* getting things started

. I also like soaping him up too. He likes that.

Also, lingerie (but make it a surprise), random acts of kinkiness (think mouth and out of the blue), and he loves my wrap dresses. I flash him like an old dirty man in the park.

Also, if we are in bed, I roll over and start to play with him. That does not work all the time when he is stressed though.