[sandiegomom]

today has been a bad day I don't know why. I guess maybe my husband and I really had not fully dealt with our two losses together since he got back a few weeks ago. We have had different family members in town several times, busy taking care of things...etc. today, after his family left to go back to texas....I broke down and started crying. I don't know why it hit me now. I am on my period,(probably one of the worst ones I have ever had in my life too) so that probably has me more emotional. I think that this probably needed to happen so we could truly move forward. I am probably emotional too that we aren't ttc until April. that is another reason i haven't been on here as much lately. I came on here earlier today and was looking in the April DDC...and saw people posting about already finding out the sex, and I guess it just hit me kind of hard. just realizing what could have been right now. Anyways, it was nice to be able to actually have him be able to hold me while I cried. I am glad he is home now. I am feeling better now, movin' right along, that is all we can do.

[Pitridge]

Heather, I'm so sorry.....I just want to give you Hugs. Your losses were very close together, I don't know what that's like, but I can imaging not easy to deal with. I'm glad DH is back in town to be with you. I know that I don't know, but you live in San Diego? Your DH is in the military? Where in SD are you? We are moving back there after a year overseas. HUGS

[humnck]

HUGS! I am ss you had a rough day! I did the same thing about 2 or 3 weeks ago, went into the March DDC and saw everyone posting, it's a...made me very sad, so I can totally relate to that! I hope the time flies and that April comes quickly and you get your sticky BFP right away!

[pepper73]

I'm so sorry!! Having a ton of distractions will definitely hold off the grieving process. I think it is good that you were able to totally let it out. You have been through so much and it is healthy to cry and mourn. I am really grateful that your DH is there with you to help comfort you. And you know that we are all here for you!!

[sandiegomom]

Thank you ladies. I am so happy he is home now, but I am so grateful that I had the support of everyone on here while he was gone. It means so much to me that I found this site. To Pitridge, yep, DH is in the military and this is our second tour in San Diego. Where were you overseas at? I love it here....well, not the cost of living!! But, just so much to do and the gorgeous weather helps too Anyways, I am feeling much better today. Thank you again for the kind words.

[.:Shortcake:.]

((HUGS)) I'm glad DH is back in town and I hope now you both can grieve your losses and let yourselves deal with them. I'm sorry you have to wait so long to try again. Always know we are here for you hun.

[Ana*Addey*OliveMommy]

[doremi]

Tears are good. I'm glad you two are getting the opportunity to work through this together now! Huge hugs to you.

[Pitridge]

Originally Posted by sandiegomom

To Pitridge, yep, DH is in the military and this is our second tour in San Diego. Where were you overseas at? I love it here....well, not the cost of living!! But, just so much to do and the gorgeous weather helps too Anyways, I am feeling much better today. Thank you again for the kind words.

My name is Patty My Dh is not in the military, but I lived there for over 17 years (or close to that). Are you guys in Camp Pendleton? We are, well will be in north county in 3 weeks, I can't wait to get back to nice weather, right now we are in Brussels and let me tell it's a shock when you come from SD

[acchickpea]

Hugs.... I agree with the ladies... a good cry is really a good way of getting rid of the hurt.... thinking of you..... Glad that DH is home to comfort you too!