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October 18th, 2011, 07:54 AM
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A couple that my husband and I used to hang out with just announced on FB that they are expecting and is having a girl! This is their second child and DH and I were trying to have our first before they even had their first.....
It was an oopsie pregnancy... even worse....
But I am happy for them.....
please TWW please speed up so that I can find out if I get to have that joy too !!!!
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October 18th, 2011, 08:00 AM
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I'm sorry.... that's very hard to swallow, even if you are happy for them. I can offer you HUGS.
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October 18th, 2011, 08:15 AM
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((HUGS)) I'm sorry. Pregnancy announcements are always hard after a loss.
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October 18th, 2011, 09:10 AM
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It's true. Pregnancy announcements are SO HARD after a loss, even when you are happy for the people who are expecting. I totally get it.
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October 18th, 2011, 10:14 AM
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I just found out the same news yesterday about someone who never wanted to have kids. Not sure if it was planned or an oopsie. It's hard to feign excitement when your heart is breaking inside.

FXing that this is your sticky cycle!
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October 18th, 2011, 10:18 AM
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I'm sorry, I know exactly how you are feeling. I have a friend on FB who flaunts her pregnancy around (she got pregnant so quickly after her and her hubby started trying) so I've ended up blocking a lot of her news feed. I love her to death, but I can't handle it right now, especially since it is taking what feels like forever for me to even ovulate.
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October 18th, 2011, 10:35 AM
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I'm ss! HUGS!! I know how hard it is...hearing news like that is so hard after a loss, I felt like everyone was announcing it after my loss...it sucked!!
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October 18th, 2011, 12:09 PM
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October 18th, 2011, 12:58 PM
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Thanks ladies... I think what gets to me is that we were trying at the same time and they are already on baby number 2...
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October 18th, 2011, 01:04 PM
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*hugs*

I know how that is - it hurts
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October 18th, 2011, 01:10 PM
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October 18th, 2011, 01:17 PM
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My SIL just announced yesterday they are having twins. (don't get me wrong, I'm happy for her.) But we were due two weeks apart There's was also on oopsie, she has a 4 month old right now.
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October 18th, 2011, 01:31 PM
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I'm sorry..I hate that feeling. Hopefully your tww pans out for you!
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October 18th, 2011, 01:58 PM
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I know it's so hard. Even worse than oopsies is when they complain on fb about their pregnancy and how they just can't wait to be done, etc. blah blah...
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October 18th, 2011, 02:16 PM
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I know it's so hard. Even worse than oopsies is when they complain on fb about their pregnancy and how they just can't wait to be done, etc. blah blah...
That is the WORST. I know people like that. It is seriously one of the most painful things to read. I know that if I were pregnant, I would be grateful for every time I threw up just because I'd be so happy to be pregnant and to have my hormones working right. I wish that everyone could know how much of a blessing their babies / pregnancies are; and how grateful others would be to be in their shoes.
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October 19th, 2011, 04:30 AM
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I am so sorry! It's always so hard to hear pregnancy announcements! I really hope you get to announce your pregnancy soon though! Your chart is looking fabulous!! Fingers crossed!!
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