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Zoey1981 · #1 October 25th, 2011, 09:15 AM

Hi Ladies,

I just got word from my doctor's office I did in fact loose this baby. This is my 3rd miscarriage. 2nd one that is a miss miscarriage. I have not yet started to bleed or cramp or show any signs of a m/c happening. Just my beta numbers show it. DH and I are going to keep trying once this clears up but it doesn't make it any easier. I know when I do get pg again I will be even more psychotic than before. I go into see the doctor tomorrow afternoon and maybe he will have some answers for me. Since this is two m/c in a row they are talking about checking some other stuff to find out if my body is just having a hard time holding onto the baby. We do already have 3 beautiful healthy boys, 5yr old and twin 3yr olds. So we know we can have children. We are hoping to have a healthy girl someday. Its the reason we are trying again. Anyway sorry for the lengthy post, I get typing and everything pours out and feeling depressed increases that.

Nia1978 · #2 October 25th, 2011, 09:20 AM

I'm sorry for your loss.

pepper73 · #3 October 25th, 2011, 10:50 AM

Hi and welcome to TTCAL! I'm so sorry for your losses! I hope that your doctor will do some testing and get to the root of everything so you can go on to have a healthy baby. This is a wonderful board full of supportive women so don't hesitate to jump right in with questions, concerns, vents...or anything!

cheeky_monkey · #4 October 25th, 2011, 10:53 AM

I'm so sorry for your losses. Hopefully you will be able to get some results soon and manage to get your sticky bean sooner than soon

*SamF* · #5 October 25th, 2011, 11:00 AM

Welcome to TTCAL. I'm so sorry for your losses!

StaceygirlPa · #6 October 25th, 2011, 11:29 AM

I am so sorry for you loss. Welcome to the board. The ladies here are great. I don't know how I would have made it through the last year. I hope your doctor does the testing to see if there is a problem.

Zoey1981 · #7 October 25th, 2011, 01:40 PM

Thank you for the wonderful welcome. It's nice to have a place to go to where women truely understand what you feel. I try talking to my mil and all she tells me is to don't worry, don't think about it. I know she means well but it makes me want to scream cause I feel like she doesn't hear me. But really I think its because she doesn't understand me.

junie22 · #8 October 25th, 2011, 04:31 PM

So sorry for your loss.

I hope that you and your doctor can figure out what is going wrong and that you'll get your sticky little girl soon.

MillerMom2b · #9 October 25th, 2011, 04:50 PM

Sorry for your loss.. :hugs: Welcome to the board, I saw your post on my thread.
One of the only things that help my depression is writing it down. It seems that this forum really helps! I hope that we all get our sticky beans soon!!