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November 2nd, 2011, 08:07 AM
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I just found out the 16 year old 2 houses down is pregnant... again. She was pregnant earlier in the year and lost it. She is pregnant again with a different guy but they are no longer together. Her two older sisters 19 and 17 both have boys. It's frustrating to watch these young girls without high school diplomas get pregnant and then struggle, and I can't even get pregnant. UGH! It's especially hard to see this family, who's mom started the cycle, continue the cycle. Her mom is never home and she constantly has people in and out of the house. I don't mean to bash anyone without a high school diploma, because I know it is possible to do well without one, but it's a lot more work, and the area we currently live in, is like one big 16&pregnant/teen mom episode. I just want to get pregnant and stay pregnant for 9 whole months!!!! Sigh... that is all
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:10 AM
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Oh man, that would frustrate me to! I don't like the show 16 and pregnant and don't think it should be aired. Sure, it shows some hardships but not enough to deter kids from getting pregnant. Its unfair that people who don't want or can't care for kids are able to have them at the drop of a hat.
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:23 AM
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It's hard for me to see people who didn't want the pregnancy or who aren't going to care for their child get pregnant.
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November 2nd, 2011, 09:28 AM
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That really gets to me too! There is a woman here at work whose son's gf had 2 babies, she got pg again and had to have an abortion because she didn't want it. Why can people like that have babies and people who would be loving parents and want it so badly, not?! In fact, she doesn't even want the 2 she has now and my friend's SIL might be adopting them...I really hope those kids are removed from that home, the woman that works with me is so worried about them and she has custody of her son's two older ones, but she is too old at this point and not financially able to take the 2 littles.
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November 2nd, 2011, 10:05 AM
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its heartbreaking and very frustrating there a few young girls we recently hired were i work they had children very young 15 for her first child che just had her third and dosnt want them but get help from the state so isnt really trying to make a better life for herself and her children just keeps having kids she dosnt truly want it seems no matter where you look there are moms who dont want there children and women like us praying for our own
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November 2nd, 2011, 04:45 PM
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I get frustrated by this sort of thing too. It's so frustrating that people who don't care or who are horrible parents become parents, like druggies and molestors and abusers. I know I would be an awesome mom... where's mine? I know exactly how you feel.
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