Forum: Trying to Conceive after Loss
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November 6th, 2011, 08:52 AM
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Just wanted to say hi ladies. There are some that I already know. I've been lurking for the past few days. I'm still on the fence about TTC after my loss. Even though it was a very early loss, it's still very fresh and painful to me. I'm truly scared to try again to only end up with the same result. Well, anyways, I just wanted to let you ladies know that I'm lurking about, for a reason, not trying to just be nosy. I wish all you ladies get to have your rainbow babies sooner rather than later.
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November 6th, 2011, 09:10 AM
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Wookie's Girl
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I am so sorry for your loss.  The ladies on here are awesome and have all been where you are right now. Feel free to vent away and get some of that frustration out.
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November 6th, 2011, 09:19 AM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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HUGS Liz...glad you found TTCAL, it's a great group of ladies and you'll find a lot of support here. You don't have to be ready to TTC again immediately after a loss...take some time for yourself and you can decide whether to try again (or not) after you've had a chance to heal & reflect. HUGS
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November 6th, 2011, 10:04 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I am so sorry for your loss. It doesn't matter if a loss is early or late, it all still hurts just the same. I hope after some time you find peace with what happened and TTC again if you feel its something you want to do.
I don't think the fear ever goes away after having a loss. What helps me is seeing the people/friends I have in real life who have had losses and went on to have healthy babies.
Good luck!
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November 6th, 2011, 10:50 AM
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Stiky Bun on Board
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Thank you for understanding.
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November 6th, 2011, 01:53 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 we are here for you. Even if your not ready please feel free to post here. The ladies are amazing and super supportive.
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November 6th, 2011, 02:03 PM
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Expecting #1
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Glad you're lurking over here, Liz.
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November 6th, 2011, 02:51 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I met you in the pregnancy loss board. Glad you have made it here to lurk. Let yourself heal and you will know what you want to do as time goes on. We are still waiting on my numbers to be all the way back to ) and then I think I am still going to wait at least one cycle before trying. I still have days though where I think "Maybe we shouldn't try again"
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November 6th, 2011, 04:26 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry for your loss hun. Try to give your body a month to process what has happened and then hopefully you will get your BFP soon after that. You just need to feel it out, as horrid as it is - don't bottle it up! hugs hun
And i agree with Katie - plz feel free to post here because we have all been through the same horrible experiences and hopefully you will find it comforting to know that your not alone in this.
Last edited by newmommysarah; November 6th, 2011 at 04:30 PM.
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November 6th, 2011, 06:37 PM
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Surprise! We're Pregnant!
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OMG Liz, I didn't even realize you are going through a loss! I'm so sorry hon. 
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November 7th, 2011, 09:12 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Utah - but I'm an Idaho girl
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Hi, Liz. I'm new, too, and have found this to be a very supportive place. Welcome!
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Thank you!
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November 7th, 2011, 10:09 AM
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Super Mommy
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Glad to have you here! This is a really supportive group. I'm really sorry for your loss. I can tell you that no, the fear doesn't go away. I'm trying this cycle, and I'm terrified, but excited at the same time.
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November 8th, 2011, 07:58 AM
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Stiky Bun on Board
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Quote:
Originally Posted by sweet.hun
OMG Liz, I didn't even realize you are going through a loss! I'm so sorry hon. |
It's OK hun.
Thanks again ladies. I'm still going to the doctor weekly. Apparently my uterus is still enlarged. Whatever that means.
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