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November 13th, 2011, 12:01 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2011
Location: Montana
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Hi ladies,
I started spotting Thursday night at 9 weeks and ended up in the ER this morning with really bad pain and gushes of blood. They discovered that the baby no longer had a heartbeat. So they sent me home with some prescriptions to wait for everything to pass. Hopefully I'll be able to do it naturally like last time and won't have to go back into the ER.
I'm really devestated. I thought this pregnancy was different and I feel like I was lied to by my own body. I'll probably take a break from the boards for a while.
But I'll be back and on the TTC wagon fairly soon. Now that I've had two losses I'm going to push for some testing. In the meantime I'm going to focus on my wedding I guess....
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November 13th, 2011, 12:05 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
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 I am so very sorry hun! We are here for you every step of the way. It truly sucks! 
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November 13th, 2011, 12:08 PM
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Expecting #1
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: California
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I am so very sorry. I don't even know what to say to bring you comfort. I just hope that time will heal your heart. When you're ready to return, know that we'll be here for you.
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November 13th, 2011, 12:39 PM
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Weiner Dogs Rock!
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: Maryland
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I am so sorry. I hope your body does it naturally and you can concentrate on planning your wedding without complications. Sending
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November 13th, 2011, 12:42 PM
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Regular
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Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Utah
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I am so so sorry! My heart just broke when I saw your post. Not sure what to say but wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you.
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November 13th, 2011, 12:43 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Alberta
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I'm so sorry. It breaks my heart to see people returning to this board.
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November 13th, 2011, 12:47 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Maine
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Oh no Becky!!! I am so sorry!!! I really thought it was a sticky bean for you too and I am heartbroken that you have to come back here! Take whatever time you need and know that we are all here for you!!
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November 13th, 2011, 12:49 PM
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Stiky Bun on Board
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Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: NYC
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I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope you pass everything naturally and can move on to finally have your true rainbow baby.
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November 13th, 2011, 01:11 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: IL
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I'm so sorry 
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November 13th, 2011, 01:19 PM
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Little bean in the Oven
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Join Date: Aug 2011
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Aww, Becky I'm so sorry hun. I feel awful. I wish I could hug you. Take all the time you need. I wish I knew more to say to take away the pain, you were there for me when I first got here and I'll be here for you always. You're a true friend and I wish you nothing but the best and comfort in this time. Take care of your self hun.
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November 13th, 2011, 01:47 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: May 2011
Location: Chicago!
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So sorry hun. There's nothing to be said to make it go away or make you feel better, but we are all here for you when you are ready to come back to the boards.
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November 13th, 2011, 02:04 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Kentucky
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I am so sorry for your loss. Enjoy planning your wedding and I hope when you are ready to try again that you will get your rainbow baby.
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November 13th, 2011, 02:20 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: INDIANA
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I absolutely hate hearing this! I am so very sorry Becky. Please know I'm thinking and praying for you.
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November 13th, 2011, 05:54 PM
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Veteran
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Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Cape Cod, Mass
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Sending you lots of thoughts and prayers! I'm sorry you have to go through this!
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November 13th, 2011, 05:57 PM
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Texas
Posts: 699
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HUGS Hope you're healing is fast. I'm sorry you are going thru this again.
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November 13th, 2011, 06:19 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Washington State
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Oh hon, I am so, so sorry. Thinking of you and praying for you during this horrible time.
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November 13th, 2011, 06:26 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Jun 2008
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I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))
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November 13th, 2011, 06:37 PM
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~Praying4Girl&LoveMyBoys~
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Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Washington State
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I am so sorry to hear. My heart just breaks for you. Sending lots of prayers and thoughts to you.
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November 13th, 2011, 07:20 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2011
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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November 13th, 2011, 07:27 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Delaware (the state!)
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Oh Becky, I am ss you have to go through this again! I was really hoping that this was your rainbow baby! Please push for that testing, the sooner you get answers the better! I hope you are able to "heal" quickly and enjoy your wedding and please KUP on you, once you are ready to return.
HUGS!!!!
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