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November 13th, 2011, 02:09 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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This morning I had light pink blood when I wiped then later red blood then finally small clots started coming out along with bad cramping. I am just so shocked and disappointed - I feel broken and Im terrified I won't be able to have any more kids. The only positive I can think of is that Im glad it happened early this time instead of 16 weeks like last time.
How soon can you try again after an early MC? Im calling my doc in the AM. I was supposed to have my second set of BW tomorrow and I hope they still do it to see if my numbers are getting lower.
**UPDATE: Doc just called and they told me I had a chemical pregnancy. My numbers are already down to 3 and they said they consider anything under a 2 not pregnant. They want me to wait until after my next period to try again which kinda makes me sad to have to wait. I really wanted to just try again right away. Thank you to everyone for your thoughts and kind words.
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Last edited by Lindz253; November 14th, 2011 at 12:32 PM.
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November 13th, 2011, 02:14 PM
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Expecting #1
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Oh, Lindsey, you must be so scared. I think that even with some small clots, it could be nothing to worry about. I'm sure more than ever, your doctor will want to do another beta draw. Definitely take it easy and drink plenty of water until you see your doctor.
You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. I don't even want to answer your question about how soon to try after an early m/c because I have hope that's not what's happening to you.  If the time comes, though, I will definitely share my input (since my loss was early).
KUP.
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November 13th, 2011, 04:23 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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No!!! Ugh, I hope that this isn't happening  You are not broken! 
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November 13th, 2011, 04:55 PM
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Oh no I'm so sorry. Please KUP.
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November 13th, 2011, 04:58 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Lindsey I am so sorry It's not fair. Usually after an early loss the bleeding you will have is like a period only a little heavier and more clots & cramps. Then usually around 2 weeks later you should O since it was an early loss. I would call the doctor and ask for your 2nd beta though just to be safe because some women do bleed during early pregnancy. Praying that's all it is.
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November 13th, 2011, 05:50 PM
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Veteran
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I'm so sorry that's happening to you...
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November 13th, 2011, 05:58 PM
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Super Mommy
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Prayers for you
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November 13th, 2011, 06:20 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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November 13th, 2011, 06:25 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry. (((hugs))) I've always been told it's okay to try right away after an early loss.
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November 13th, 2011, 06:39 PM
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Sending lots of prayers that everything is okay. I am so sorry you have to go through this.
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November 13th, 2011, 07:52 PM
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I'm so sorry hun!
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November 13th, 2011, 09:25 PM
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Super Mommy
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Oh, I'm so so sorry
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November 14th, 2011, 04:14 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Lindsey, I am so sorry you are going through this. I really hope it is nothing but some random bleeding and your little bean is safe and secure. Please let us know what happens at the doctor. I hope you have a nice, high beta. We are all here for you so no matter what happens, you have our support and tons of virtual hugs!
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November 14th, 2011, 06:24 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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T&P's your way.... Hope that everything will work out for you..... KUP...
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November 14th, 2011, 10:31 AM
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I'm so sorry Hopefully it was just some left over blood or something
Will be in my thoughts and prayers xxxxx
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November 14th, 2011, 12:13 PM
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i'm so sorry Lindsey...what happened with your dr appt, did you go in to do bloodwork? big HUGS to you!
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November 14th, 2011, 12:37 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry
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November 14th, 2011, 12:42 PM
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Expecting #1
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So sorry, Lindsey.
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November 14th, 2011, 12:43 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 I didn't like waiting last cycle either, but I now realize it was probably for the best. It still sucks though.
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November 14th, 2011, 05:51 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry Lindsey
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