Breaking Dawn (Spoilers)(My Miscarriage Mentioned)

LittleMomma09 · #1 November 18th, 2011, 12:07 AM

PLEASE DON'T READ UNLESS YOU HAVE READ OR WATCHED THE MOVIE! MISCARRIAGE MENTIONED!
So I thought I would have a great night out with the girls and go to the movies. We are all big fans of the Twilight Saga. I have read all the books more than a few times so I knew what I was getting myself into. Well when it got to where Bella found out that she was pregnant and Edward flips out and goes to talk on the phone, I just start crying. Here she is so happy about what they had made together and they are playing the saddest music possible, I just couldn't hold it back. It was like I was took back to the day I knew something was wrong with our baby. I wasn't going to get my happy ending with this pregnancy. I know it's silly but now it's all I can think about. My wounds feel fresh again. I had come to terms with my loss and was finally feeling happy to move on.

Overall it was a great movie. I will probably go and watch it again, maybe. They stuck more to the book with this one more than the others. Some things were added but that was to be expected and I think it made it better.

pepper73 · #2 November 18th, 2011, 04:15 AM

I'm sorry that brought everything flooding back for you. I've had those moments too. It's so hard.

I'm glad to hear the movie was more like the book. I was really disappointed in all of the movies so far. I thought they could've done a much better job.

K.A.T · #3 November 18th, 2011, 07:22 AM

LittleMomma09 · #4 November 18th, 2011, 09:44 PM

Thanks ladies! I am doing better today. Last night it had turned into something I couldn't get out of my head.

pepper73 · #5 November 19th, 2011, 05:53 AM

It happens. Sometimes we need those moments. I think the grieving never really goes away. I'm sure there will be days 20 years from now where we will have some kind of trigger that will bring back the same emotions. A loss is so unfair.

Lindz253 · #6 November 19th, 2011, 05:51 PM

We all have those moments and Im sorry it happened to you while you were out with the girls at a movie. I saw the movie tonight actually so I know what you are talking about.

I liked it and thought it was the best movie so far but the movies don't hold a candle to how good the books are.

Im glad to hear you are doing better today. Sometimes its good to have a cry.

LittleMomma09 · #7 November 19th, 2011, 08:23 PM

You're right the books are way better! I am a bookaholic

when it comes to reading.

LilHerndon · #8 November 20th, 2011, 09:02 AM

I know exactly how you feel, and oddly enough this sort of thing happened to my DH when we were watching breaking dawn too. He got so upset that a vampire could get someone pregnant but we have such trouble ttc, he started tearing up and it took all of my strength to not burst out in tears (cause the problems we are having are all me). All my thoughts of "I should be 34 weeks pregnant right now" came flooding back to me, and it just sucked, I couldn't get it out of my head all night. Other than that though, the movie was really good!

LittleMomma09 · #9 November 20th, 2011, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by LilHerndon

I know exactly how you feel, and oddly enough this sort of thing happened to my DH when we were watching breaking dawn too. He got so upset that a vampire could get someone pregnant but we have such trouble ttc, he started tearing up and it took all of my strength to not burst out in tears (cause the problems we are having are all me). All my thoughts of "I should be 34 weeks pregnant right now" came flooding back to me, and it just sucked, I couldn't get it out of my head all night. Other than that though, the movie was really good!

That's the way I felt about it.... the movie brought back a lot of stuff but over all a great movie.