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November 21st, 2011, 06:47 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I want to test so badly but I think it's all the anxiety of the 2WW. I also don't want to be disappointed if it is a negative and having to wait a couple more days to see if it suddenly turns positive. When was the earliest DPO have you tested?
I think POAS would help me to make sure that I catch that positive in time to make sure that I get the proper care (like progestorne or something...) to help the bean stick....
7 DPO is still a bit early though... Or is it? Love to hear from you all.....
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November 21st, 2011, 06:59 AM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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I've tested as early as 8DPO...the earliest + I've gotten (twice) was at 9DPO. I'd probably wait a couple more days and even then don't let a - result get you down, even 9DPO is really early for a positive result.
Good luck when you test - KUP!!
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November 21st, 2011, 07:51 AM
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I've tested way too early 8DPO. Personally I would wait until 12. Had I waited last cycle I might have never known I was pg and just assumed it was a late period.
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November 21st, 2011, 08:12 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I am not much help with testing that early, I think the earliest I have tested with a "+" is 10 DPO. But, I just wanted to say GL and KUP!!!!
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November 21st, 2011, 08:13 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I think the earliest I've tested is 9DPO and then I kicked myself because I knew it was too early but was still disappointed to see the BFN. I totally understand about wanting to find out as early as possible though.
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November 21st, 2011, 08:49 AM
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Mom of 4
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lurking (former grad) 
I've gotten a BFP at 9DPO with my rainbow baby. You have to remember that it really depends on when the egg implants. So for some of us it takes longer than others. It could implant anywhere between 4-10DPO. From that time the hcg doubles about every 48 hours. Good luck! Hope you see that BFP soon!!!!
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November 21st, 2011, 10:04 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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The earliest I have gotten a BFP is 10 DPO. I know several ladies who have gotten them on 9 DPO though.
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November 21st, 2011, 10:42 AM
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Expecting #1
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I think you should hold out until 12 DPO. I've tested as early as 8 DPO, but never got a BFP that early.
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November 21st, 2011, 10:54 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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The earliest I've gotten a positive is 12DPO. The latest I've gotten a negative when I actually was pregnant was 11DPO. So, for me, a negative at 11DPO doesn't mean much.
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November 21st, 2011, 11:00 AM
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My earliest with a positive is 8dpo.
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November 21st, 2011, 11:39 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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It has varied for me. I have gotten a positive as early as 10dpo and as late as after AF was due. If seeing a negative gets you down I would try to wait as long as possible.
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November 21st, 2011, 01:29 PM
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last month I tested + on 12dpo. This month I am testing like crazy just in case (even though I think I am not pg) because I need to start taking progesterone in hopes it helps baby stick. But this morning at 10-11dpo I am showing a BFN. Although I was anticiapting it I am REALLY bummed about it.
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November 21st, 2011, 08:26 PM
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7dpo is the earliest I've ever tested, and it was of course negative. I got a BFP at 8dpo this last time (the one that ended in m/c). With my other two kids, I got BFPs at 9dpo and 10dpo.
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November 22nd, 2011, 03:28 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I have tested as early as 9dpo. Last cycle was the first time I ever got a BFP at 9dpo. Typically it's more like 11. I tested today at 10dpo and it appears to be a BFN, which totally bummed me out, even though my chart loks good. I'd try to wait it out a few more days.
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November 22nd, 2011, 04:35 AM
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Veteran
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My first pregnancy I got a BFP at 10dpo. I got one at 11dpo with the first pregnancy I lost and one at 9dpo (the evening, negative in the morning) with the last pregnancy I lost. I don't think I would test until at least 10 or 11 dpo. Day 9 is the most common day for implantation and obviously hCG takes a while to build enough in urine. Good luck!
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November 22nd, 2011, 05:34 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Zoey1981
last month I tested + on 12dpo. This month I am testing like crazy just in case (even though I think I am not pg) because I need to start taking progesterone in hopes it helps baby stick. But this morning at 10-11dpo I am showing a BFN. Although I was anticiapting it I am REALLY bummed about it.
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I asked my doctor about taking Progesterone and he told me to wait till I get a positive test and then go in for blood work... I just want to take it now so that I can get a better chance of the baby sticking too! I figure the sooner I find out the better so that I can prevent another loss...  Maybe I'm thinking alittle too deep into this... hmmmm....
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November 22nd, 2011, 10:54 AM
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Super Mommy
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The only + I've ever gotten was after AF was due, but we weren't TTC and I had no reason to think of testing earlier.
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November 23rd, 2011, 10:32 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Caved in Ladies and took an early test! At 9 dpo a BFN... I know I know......
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November 23rd, 2011, 10:55 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hoping you get a BFP in the next few days! Fingers crossed for you!
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