[Danita79]

Hello Ladies

I was told about this site from a friend after I MC'd. I usually post in TTC#1 Forum. Heres a lil rundown about me. I MC 1 year 6 months ago I was 6 wks along. I am on cycle #7 of charting. I was on BC for 11 years and came off and got pregnant that month....I was a little skeptical after getting my BFP since I was on BC for so long. I understand that it just wasnt the right time for my lil bean to stay.... but I wonder when I'll ever have one.

I am taking Vitex, B6 & Red Raspberry to help w/ getting a sticky bean, but so far no luck.

Was wondering what you ladies are doing since your MC? I want a sticky bean so much its driving me crazy & this is probably the reason that it hasn't happened...lol I have heard that sometimes you can try to hard and if you would just relax then it will happen... easier said then done.

[my3sonsplus1]

Hi and welcome! I'm Amanda. I had my first MC in 2007 and another this past July. I am at the point where I am trying to just forget about TTC and see what happens. With my previous 2 pregnancies, I got pregnant right after I stopped stressing about TTC. So maybe it does work. Best of luck to you!

[ninja_mommy]

Hi, I'm Nena. I had my 1st mc early October of this year.
Agreed, I think for a lot of us it takes longer because we put so much energy into thinking about every little detail. I'm trying to back off a little more myself.

[junie22]

Hi, Danita! Good to see you over here as well as TTC #1. I had an m/c in early October, and I'm in my fifth cycle of TTC. I, too, am taking it a little easier this cycle. I'm temping for a couple more days until I get my crosshairs on FF, and then I'm not temping for the rest of my 2WW. I'm also not symptom obsessing, and I'm not testing until AF is late. I'm just trying to be as relaxed as possible, while also doing the things I know will help, like OPKs and B6 and baby aspirin for my LP issues. And I have an appointment with a new doctor the first week of January, if I'm not pregnant by then.

I don't think there's a magical cocktail that leads to pregnancy, but I'll be sending lots of baby vibes your way. Good luck to you in getting that BFP.

[Lindz253]

Sorry for your loss. Maybe try to really relax and enjoy the Holiday season and hopefully you will get a nice BFP as a present?! Good luck to you!

[humnck]

I am ss for your loss, this is a great group of ladies, glad you found your way here!

You are totally right, relaxing is easier said than done. But, I really do think that it can sometimes be the answer. You can chart and not be overly obsessive, I think Anyways, I hope you get your BFP really soon and your stay here is short!