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December 10th, 2011, 08:06 AM
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It has been a year since our angel went to Heaven. I mentioned it to DH this morning and he did not want to talk about it. I thought I would be pregnant by now. I know that my circumstances are a little different. With the Lupron and everything this year this is the second month that we have been able to try since my m/c. And I know that with having endo that it can time time to conceive. Regardless of all that I just want my rainbow baby!
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December 10th, 2011, 09:20 AM
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December 10th, 2011, 09:29 AM
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My DH is also weird. He thought the fact that I remembered my due date means I have a mental illness.
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December 10th, 2011, 09:52 AM
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Sending you lots of hugs. Dh is the same. He doesn't like to talk about our angels.
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December 10th, 2011, 10:23 AM
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December 10th, 2011, 10:32 AM
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Thanks ladies!
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December 10th, 2011, 10:46 AM
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Praying 4 a miracle
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Big Caitlin. I know how hard it is coz I have endo as well and I can understand your frustration. I'm sorry that ur DH is finding it so difficult. Try to support each other coz this is a sad day for both of you. 
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December 10th, 2011, 12:59 PM
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Great big ((((((HUGS)))))) to you Caitlin! 
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December 10th, 2011, 01:47 PM
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Hugs....
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December 10th, 2011, 02:26 PM
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((((Hugs))))
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December 10th, 2011, 02:46 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Hugs. Praying you get your rainbow baby soon.
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December 11th, 2011, 09:38 AM
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Thanks ladies! I would be lost without you!
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December 11th, 2011, 10:30 AM
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December 11th, 2011, 12:25 PM
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Men are just wired a little differently for these things I think. We hardly ever talk about our losses but when we do it is very meaningful. I hope you get your BFP soon...I know you had to wait so long to even get to try and TTC so I am sure you are MORE than ready at this point. *hugs*
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December 11th, 2011, 04:48 PM
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I'm always here if you need to talk. I also always remember your angelversary because it's so close to mine. I pray you get your rainbow baby soon hun.
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December 11th, 2011, 07:56 PM
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Thanks ladies very much!
Missy I went to DH in tears and told him I really needed him to listen to me and talk with me. And he did!
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December 12th, 2011, 05:47 AM
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Big HUGS sweetie!
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December 12th, 2011, 11:27 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by .:Shortcake:.
I'm always here if you need to talk. I also always remember your angelversary because it's so close to mine. I pray you get your rainbow baby soon hun. |
I am thinking about you Katie!
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December 12th, 2011, 11:38 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I'm glad you and your DH got to talk about it. I think men handle things differently. When I'm feeling sad about our loss, I go to my husband and tell him directly that I'm sad and need to cry.
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December 12th, 2011, 11:55 AM
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Hugs, sweetie! I hope you can talk to DH and explain how important this is to you. Men just don't quite get it. I do talk to DH about it and now he knows all I need for him to do is listen.
I really hope that you can get your BFP soon!
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