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December 14th, 2011, 12:09 PM
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TTC #2
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OK so my uterus is completely cleaned out and the lining is at 5, which I guess between 5-7 is normal and good. The cyst in my left ovary is completely gone, so that's good too. BUT...I have something on my right ovary now. She said its really really small and they can't even tell what kind of cyst it is yet so I have to go back in 6 weeks for another u/s. W...........T.............F!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I asked her what could be causing these cysts and I got the same speech as last time. These things are normal and women get them all the time and they normally go away but since most women aren't having ultrasounds all the time, nobody knows about them. But since she knows I'm trying to have a baby its her responsibility to make sure its nothing first. Its so freakin annoying to me. Can't my ovaries just be normal so I can have a baby already. Jeeze.... 
So I go back in Jan 25th....There better not be any cysts ANYWHERE next time. 
She tells me that everything looks good and if my hcg comes back under 10 then she feels my cycles will be back on track quickly, but she thinks it might be a good idea to wait until the next u/s to see what the cyst does before we start trying again. UH.....I'm not OK with that. I don't plan on really trying trying this month, but I'm not going to NOT try next month. I don't think I can mentally handle that. If my body is ready and God wants it to happen...well so be it, if it doesn't happen before the u/s, well then I won't get a big lecture from the dr. Either way...whatever happens, happens. 
I feel good that everything else is good, but I'm just really frustrated with the new news. She told me to enjoy the holidays and not even track my cycle (yeah RIGHT) and she KNOWS its going to happen quick after we start trying again. I'm completely healthy, we know I can get pregnant and most of my insides look good and ready. Ugh...I'm so not feeling the relaxed and enjoy anything crap. I want to relax and be pregnant. 
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December 14th, 2011, 12:23 PM
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Expecting #1
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I responded to your post on the TTC board. Just wanted to give you some extra  here.
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December 14th, 2011, 12:28 PM
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So glad to hear that it sounds like your body is resetting and getting back on track. I know just how you feel about not wanting to sit out a month. That's where I'm at right now. I think if you feel that you should give it a chance this month, then that's exactly what you should do. GL. KUP!
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December 14th, 2011, 01:10 PM
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TTC #2
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Originally Posted by junie22
I responded to your post on the TTC board. Just wanted to give you some extra here. |
Thank you 
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Originally Posted by Lcoleman
So glad to hear that it sounds like your body is resetting and getting back on track. I know just how you feel about not wanting to sit out a month. That's where I'm at right now. I think if you feel that you should give it a chance this month, then that's exactly what you should do. GL. KUP!
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I'm glad I'm not the only one. Waiting sucks enough when you are TTC, wasting even one month sucks even more!! 
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December 14th, 2011, 01:15 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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[/QUOTE]I'm glad I'm not the only one. Waiting sucks enough when you are TTC, wasting even one month sucks even more!! [/QUOTE]
It does suck! I didn't listen either! I am pretty sure that most women actively TTC tend to not "hear" the doctor's recommendation when it comes to that!
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December 14th, 2011, 01:23 PM
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TTC #2
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Originally Posted by humnck
It does suck! I didn't listen either! I am pretty sure that most women actively TTC tend to not "hear" the doctor's recommendation when it comes to that!
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I just don't want to get pregnant right away and end up with another m/c. That would not be ideal and of course I would feel even worse for not listening.  NTNP for this month, and back to TTC next month. I think that's the safe way to go
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December 14th, 2011, 01:26 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Originally Posted by seri0uslyc0nfused
I just don't want to get pregnant right away and end up with another m/c. That would not be ideal and of course I would feel even worse for not listening. NTNP for this month, and back to TTC next month. I think that's the safe way to go |
This is true, I waited 1 cycle, I was told to wait 2. I know there are some ladies who have done it both ways, it's really just a matter of comfort for you, I think. If your body isn't it ready, it likely won't allow for implantation IMO. But, I think it is completely a personal choice and when you are comfortable with it, that is when you should actively TTC
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December 14th, 2011, 01:32 PM
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TTC #2
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Originally Posted by humnck
This is true, I waited 1 cycle, I was told to wait 2. I know there are some ladies who have done it both ways, it's really just a matter of comfort for you, I think. If your body isn't it ready, it likely won't allow for implantation IMO. But, I think it is completely a personal choice and when you are comfortable with it, that is when you should actively TTC |
I agree completely. I think my body will answer the question so why should I hold it back? LOL
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December 14th, 2011, 01:40 PM
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They saw a cyst when they did an ultrasound to find out if I was miscarrying in June. She wasn't sure what kind of cyst it was and scheduled a follow up in DECEMBER! (I live in Canada, so the long wait is normal for us). She never suggested I wait, so I didn't bother. I got pregnant in Oct and my last ultrasound didn't show any cyst at all. I would try again anyway, if I were you.
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December 14th, 2011, 01:43 PM
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TTC #2
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Originally Posted by Nia1978
They saw a cyst when they did an ultrasound to find out if I was miscarrying in June. She wasn't sure what kind of cyst it was and scheduled a follow up in DECEMBER! (I live in Canada, so the long wait is normal for us). She never suggested I wait, so I didn't bother. I got pregnant in Oct and my last ultrasound didn't show any cyst at all. I would try again anyway, if I were you.
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Thank you, that is some good info!! I love hearing stuff like that! 
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December 14th, 2011, 02:06 PM
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I say your doc is crazy. How would she feel if someone spent two months dangling an ice cream bar in front of her face and telling her she couldn't have it? Not quite the same, but you get what I mean!!
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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December 14th, 2011, 02:09 PM
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TTC #2
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Erin84
I say your doc is crazy. How would she feel if someone spent two months dangling an ice cream bar in front of her face and telling her she couldn't have it? Not quite the same, but you get what I mean!!
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RIGHT!! Or her paycheck
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