[Belita]

I'm at a point where I'm finding it easier to hear about pregnancies when I know the person has had a loss before. I'm not unhappy for anyone who's pregnant, but I think I feel jealous of people who have not had losses and almost feel like people who have angels have "earned" their baby more. I don't honestly believe that they don't deserve babies, but sometimes it's hard to push that little whiny part of me away!

[L-SBB]

i understand this....to this day (despite a successful pregnancy) i am envious of women who get to experience a pregnancy w/o a prior loss hanging over their heads. i feel like PAL worry throughout pregnancy robbed me of an innocence and joy i should have been able to feel.

(((HUGS)))

[LoverlyJules]

I agree. For some reason it's easier to hear about pg after a loss ... Even though we all would not wish our situations on anyone else. Just doesn't seem fair.

[Cait&AngelAbove]

I completely understand!

[StacieRN]

I completly understand. I find myself doing this too...a little too much lately. I feel really guilty and scold myself for it when I catch myself thinking like that. I don't want to be a bitter person...but it is just how I'm coping right now.

[.:Shortcake:.]

I know how your feeling. Trust me I've been there. And then add to it that you then feel guilty for feeling that way.

[Belita]

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who feels this way! Although I do hate the reason we have these feelings.

[martilynne]

I totally understand.