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January 27th, 2012, 11:12 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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So this morning's test was a definite BFN... I know I'm only 9 DPO, so there's still hope, but I'm still not really feeling it. I think all of my symptoms are from the progesterone. I'll test again on Sunday morning if AF hasn't shown...
It's harder than I thought it would be for me to tell myself that it's okay to miss this cycle. Sigh. I just sooooo want a dragon baby!
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January 27th, 2012, 11:18 AM
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Expecting #1
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 You're still in it to win it!
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January 27th, 2012, 11:23 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you get a beautiful BFP on Sunday!!
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January 27th, 2012, 11:39 AM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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waaaay too early to thrown in the towel on this cycle Becky...i'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you! I know it's tough with the progesterone suppl. definitely makes you toss out all the symptoms that would otherwise give you hope, but you are not out until AF arrives!
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January 27th, 2012, 11:40 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Don't give you! I tested last Friday 9dpo and my test was negative. I went out of town and then tested on Monday and got a BFP! Test again in a couple of days! Good luck!
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January 27th, 2012, 06:34 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Don't give up yet! I got BFN at 10 and 11 DPO. And I mean the stark white, nothing to even squint at kind of BFN....and still got a BFP at 14 DPO.
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January 27th, 2012, 07:33 PM
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Missing my Jelly Bean
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 Good luck hun. There is still a chance! Never say never until the witch shows.
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January 27th, 2012, 09:16 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies... I'm just trying to prepare myself. Part of me thinks it would be just fine to stay with BFNs this time... I could have wine and champagne at my wedding. We could jacuzzi on our honeymoon.
But I want to be pregnant again! I want a baby by the end of the year... I don't want to go through another Angel EDD without the hope of a baby.
Argh... sorry for the whine. On the positive side, since AF hasn't shown my LP is at least 10 days again and the 5 or 6 day LP I had last cycle was a fluke.
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January 27th, 2012, 09:28 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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ugh. I swear that I just posted on this! Anyway, this is what I said. It's not over til the witch shows her ugly face! Good luck and tons of baby dust
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January 28th, 2012, 07:23 PM
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Platinum Supermommy
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I know how it feels Becky. I went through 2 Due dates and it was so painful. Big hugs to you! I hope you get a bfp tomorrow!!
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January 29th, 2012, 06:47 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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 You are definitely not out yet!
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January 29th, 2012, 11:47 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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BFN this morning.... when I looked really hard I thought that maybe I saw a shadow. But I think that I'm seeing things....
Now I'm just wishing that AF would get here so I can get on with the next one...
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January 30th, 2012, 06:39 AM
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Becky, I totally understand your frustration. Seeing those BFN's just sucks. You are still early though so please don't give up hope!
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January 30th, 2012, 08:48 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Becky I'm with Sarah, it's still early so you not out until the witch shows up.
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January 30th, 2012, 11:02 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Becky, any updates? I have my fingers crossed and yay for a longer LP!!
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January 30th, 2012, 01:34 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I hope you just have a late implanter that is taking awhile to give you BFP beauty. Hang in there!
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January 30th, 2012, 05:51 PM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Still no AF, but I'm starting to feel crampy and I'm pretty sure she's on her way. I didn't bother to test today. I think that if the witch still hasn't arrived by Wednesday I'll take another one. Still just not feeling it thought.
I'm okay with it really. I'm crazy busy doing all the last minute stuff for the wedding. And next cycle the 2ww should be eaten up by the wedding and honeymoon. Pretty perfect timing I suppose...
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January 30th, 2012, 05:53 PM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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i'm still hoping for you Becky, but if not maybe you'll get an awesome surprise after you return from your honeymoon
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January 31st, 2012, 08:44 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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 to Lara, a lovely post-honeymoon/wedding surprise!! The 2 WW would go by so much faster too!
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January 31st, 2012, 11:18 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by L-SBB
i'm still hoping for you Becky, but if not maybe you'll get an awesome surprise after you return from your honeymoon 
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I totally agree! I do hope that this cycle gives you your BFP, but a BFP after an amazing wedding and honeymoon would be great too!
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