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February 8th, 2012, 07:04 AM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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Your chart is smokin hot...when are you testing???
i'm in full on stalker mode now!
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February 8th, 2012, 07:29 AM
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Expecting #1
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 Thanks, Lara! I tested yesterday AM and got a BFN. I had my blood drawn yesterday for my 10 DPO progesterone check (my OB counts ovulation day as 1 DPO) and they added a hCG test. I may still be too early for it to have shown yesterday (or so they warned me) but I should get those results today. If those are negative I'm going to reteset Friday or Saturday!
I feel pregnant as long as I'm not trying to talk my self out of those feelings.
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February 8th, 2012, 08:06 AM
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Expecting #1
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just had some spotting and my heart sank.  I want the results from my doctor and hope they call soon!
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February 8th, 2012, 08:23 AM
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I just came over to check on you!
FX that it was IB hun!!!
Really hoping to see you in the Oct. DDC!
I'm eager for your results.
PS I would just call them!
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February 8th, 2012, 08:26 AM
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Expecting #1
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They told me they'd call this afternoon.
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February 8th, 2012, 08:54 AM
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Expecting #1
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I have no faith in symptoms anymore. hCG is 0. The doctor has to review my progesterone and get back to me about it. Apparently the doctor is out today, so probably won't hear back until tomorrow.
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February 8th, 2012, 09:30 AM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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HUGS sweetie..i can still hold out some hope that you might have a late implantation in which case you wouldn't see a + result probably for a few more days. When is AF technically late for you this cycle?
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Lara
Under The Sea Savannah!
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~It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious. ~ Oscar Wilde
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February 8th, 2012, 10:23 AM
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Expecting #1
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I'm still figuring out my LP, but it was 13 days last cycle, so in four more days I'll be "late." I know that technically I'm still okay, but I'm just so nervous now, especially since I found statistics that show late implantation is not a good thing.
I tried testing early this cycle and don't think I have it in me.
I'm just still confused about all these symptoms that I'm having this time and didn't have last cycle, unless the reason I didn't have them last cycle was because it was a post-loss cycle and the lack of symptoms wasn't due to lack of pregnancy.
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February 8th, 2012, 10:46 AM
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Mega Super Mommy
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I just knew I was pregnant with DD and I swear I had a positive test but had a blood test that showed HCG of 0. I threw away all the tests in anger. I must have implanted late because DD is proof I was clearly pregnant. Don't give up until AF gets here!!
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February 8th, 2012, 10:47 AM
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Expecting #1
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Thanks! That means a lot! I swear I knew not to test until after AF was due until I joined here and saw people POAS so early and get BFPs. I honestly think that if this wasn't a post-loss TTC I would be fine with a negative and still having hope. TTCAL and seeing all those early BFPs are just messing with my mind and I need to remember to listen to my doctor who said the same thing you did. That this is still so early and even if I am pregnant it may show nothing at this point.
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February 8th, 2012, 10:51 AM
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Bébé Cowgirl
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i also should point out that you're not even close to being a "late" implanter...your OB counts DPO differently than most...you'd be DPO8 or maybe 9 by how my RE counts, so still really really early to see a result esp if your 4 days out from AF.
I'm going to keep stalking you!  Your temp is sky high, and that's the only semi-reliable symptom i've had across all pregnancies (it kicked in late with this pregnancy so threw me off) but if your temp doesn't come down, i don't care what the early tests say, i'd put my $ on you getting a + sooner or later.
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~It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious. ~ Oscar Wilde
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February 8th, 2012, 10:51 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Do not give up hope. Your spotting could be IB!!!!! Crossing everything that when you test it's a beautiful BFP
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February 8th, 2012, 10:53 AM
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Expecting #1
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Thanks, ladies! You put a smile back on my face! I don't know what I'd do without you!!
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February 8th, 2012, 11:18 AM
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Oh Robyn!!! FX that it was IB hun, it is still so early!
My hcg was only 95 at 15DPO so if I had tested at your point I probably would have gotten a negative.

I'm rooting for you!
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Beta#1@14DPO - 95
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HB@12Weeks-160BPM!!
HB@16Weeks-160BPM!!
Gender Scan on 05/29.
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February 8th, 2012, 11:27 AM
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Expecting #1
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Thanks, Carlie! I still am having the same symptoms that had me convinced I was pregnant. I'm just doubting them now since it wouldn't make sense to feel pregnancy symptoms before implantation.
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February 8th, 2012, 12:10 PM
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Ovulation and implantation symptoms mimic pg symptoms sometimes,
And there are some ladies who just "know" they are pregnant from ovulation.
Don't doubt yourself Robyn
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Carlie*+Test@3weeks5days (:
EDD- 10/14/12
Beta#1@14DPO - 95
Beta#2@16DPO - 241
1st Ultrasound@8W2D-Baby measuring perfect!
HB@12Weeks-160BPM!!
HB@16Weeks-160BPM!!
Gender Scan on 05/29.
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February 8th, 2012, 12:49 PM
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Super Mommy
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I agree with everything the ladies have said and cross my fingers for you, Robyn. You so much deserve this BFP, don't give up! I kind of feel the same, I just feel like I may be pregnant- some women just have it in their guts. If I get a BFN my jaw will drop lol But at the same time I'm too scared of that BFN to test early--I'm defnitely waiting till 11DPO for my first test.
Hang in there, sweetie, it'll be a little miracle!
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February 8th, 2012, 01:35 PM
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Expecting #1
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Thanks, Lav.  I hope we both get our little miracles this cycle!
Carlie, last time I knew I was pregnant from the time I ovulated. That's part of why I was so upset when I lost Gabriel, is because I thought it was so special that I knew right away.
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February 8th, 2012, 01:49 PM
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Super Mommy
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Belita
Thanks, Lav.  I hope we both get our little miracles this cycle!
Carlie, last time I knew I was pregnant from the time I ovulated. That's part of why I was so upset when I lost Gabriel, is because I thought it was so special that I knew right away.
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wow that's amazing. But that also kind of tells you that you can trust your instinct
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February 8th, 2012, 01:55 PM
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Expecting #1
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Yeah, I didn't have real symptoms that early, just that that feeling.
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