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February 8th, 2012, 04:03 PM
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has anyone's friends or family had a baby and u just want nothing but to sit and hold the babe for hours? i no they arnt my own baby but alls i want to do is just hold the baby and cry sometimes my freinds who no what im going threw understand and i respect there privacy and time but am i the only one like this? lucky i am the only sahm and everyones first choice for babysitting so i take care of lots of babies and when there is allot of kids here i fell happyer. are these all normal feeling?
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February 8th, 2012, 04:16 PM
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I haven't held a baby since my loss, but it does make me want to hug little kids a little tighter when I'm at work and they give me hugs (I'm a teacher). I think it's normal because we understand firsthand how precious that little life is.
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February 8th, 2012, 04:37 PM
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I think it's normal. There are a lot of babies and small children in my area, and I see them all the time. I love to see them, and it always makes me smile. I don't know anyone with a baby right now, but if I had a chance to hold a baby, I would LOVE to! It's nice that you have the chance to babysit a lot.
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February 8th, 2012, 05:53 PM
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do you guys do the chatting or anything im so lost on that part of jm lol
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February 9th, 2012, 07:14 AM
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I often cling to my niece and nephews. And my best friends baby as well. I think it is normal to cling to them. They give you comfort.
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February 9th, 2012, 08:45 AM
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One of my SILs has an 18 month old and the other SIL has a 7 month old. I try to hold onto them as much as possible!
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February 9th, 2012, 10:12 AM
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ok so im glad its just not me i have 2 god daughters and one god daughter on the way i cling to them like crazy and my freind has a 1month old that i cant put down lucky i babysit him alot. gives me hope that it will be my turn soon!
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