[mammameg]

So I have been having some pretty painful cramps, Some of them can only be described as what early labor contractions felt like with my other two children. But I am not bleeding or spotting. Its pretty painful sometimes. So im not understanding why, if im in this much pain already, im not bleeding. I had 2 U/S and neither showed an ectopic. Should I be worried, should I call the dr?

Any help would be great. Im really just trying to get past this, but if it hasn't even started yet then how am I suppose to do that. And my next dr appt isn't till Monday.

[Cait&AngelAbove]

My cramps got really bad the day before I started miscarrying. I am so sorry that you are having to go through this!

[Lav]

so sorry you have to go through this. with my m/c I didn't start cramping before it was really underway, i.e. I was already spotting, then bleeding. If you're worried call your dr. She may want to see you before monday. Good luck, sweetie!

[mammameg]

Thank you , That helped a lot. I just want to get past this. I appreciate any help from you ladies, as I know it must be hard helping someone else through a miscarriage.

[audiesmommy]

i didnt have cramps, i started to spot went to the er and they told me my cervics was starting to open they checked no heartbeat. since i as 10 weeks i had a dnc plus i told them i wasint leaving still pregnant. i hope this is painless as possible fro you it will get easyer hang in there

[markswife]

I didn't have any cramping until I was already bleeding. The cramps that I thought felt like contractions came on the third day or so and then I didn't have any cramps or much bleeding after that. I figured that's when I passed the sac and then was done. It was awful though so I'm so sorry you have to go through this. There should really be a rule that says when you have to experience something so painful emotionally, it doesn't get to hurt physically.

[doremi]

With both my m/c's, the bleeding started, and the cramping came a few hours later. The really bad cramping only lasted for one day. Are you taking anything for the pain? If not, I'd encourage you to take either Advil or Aleve for the cramping. It will really help if you start taking it and let it build up in your system. I always take Advil, but my friend's doctor encouraged Aleve for miscarriage cramping. If you are still cramping badly tomorrow and haven't started bleeding, then I would consider seeking medical attention. I would bet that if you are cramping badly now, the miscarriage will start fairly soon.

[mammameg]

Originally Posted by doremi

With both my m/c's, the bleeding started, and the cramping came a few hours later. The really bad cramping only lasted for one day. Are you taking anything for the pain? If not, I'd encourage you to take either Advil or Aleve for the cramping. It will really help if you start taking it and let it build up in your system. I always take Advil, but my friend's doctor encouraged Aleve for miscarriage cramping. If you are still cramping badly tomorrow and haven't started bleeding, then I would consider seeking medical attention. I would bet that if you are cramping badly now, the miscarriage will start fairly soon.

Thank you. It is better today. Mostly in my back only. But im really considering going to the er tonight

[HopeTea]

Must be very scary for you, I'm sorry. I agree you should go be seen if you can.

[twoboys]

Oh no, I am so sorry, we were in the same ddc.. so many losses in there. You are in my thoughts and I hope you get through this soon and can move on

[sweet.hun]

I had the really bad cramps after I started heavily bleeding. Maybe you should contact your OB. So sorry you are going through a miscarriage.

[LoverlyJules]

So sorry! Most of my pain before my m/c was in my lower back.

[martilynne]