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April 7th, 2012, 03:38 PM
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14DPO and I am thinking it is a chemical pregnancy. I am a little devastated at the moment and trying to stay positive. I am thinking chemical pregnancy because I had a whole day of lines just like my 11DPO picture and each day they have slowly went back to stark white. I still haven't started AF but I can tell she is coming any day now.

Monday I am going to call my OB and see what is going on with me. I don't know what to ask him to check for though? What do I tell them I am making an appointment for? I need help ladies I don't know what I am doing anymore. I know I need my thyroid levels checked again. Does anyone know if them being to low could mess with stuff? My OB wants them below 2 and they are at .5. But that is just gibberish to me. I know when I got pregnant in September they were at 7 but I didn't know it and that was to high for someone TTC. I just thought that normal was normal. Also my OB is an infertility specialist and I don't know if that makes him better than a regular OB?

As of right now until I can get some kind of answers I am going to NTNP. At least for a month. I am going to be staying on this board because I would go crazy without you ladies.
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April 7th, 2012, 03:41 PM
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Sorry that you are going through this. I would tell them what you think happened and see if they have something that they can do to run tests to determine what might be going on.
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April 7th, 2012, 03:59 PM
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I'm sorry you're dealing with this too. It sounds like having the infertility specialist OB is a plus but yeah I think he should be checking everything on you.
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April 7th, 2012, 08:00 PM
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I am so sorry! I would tell them that you think you are having a chemical pregnancy and want to be checked out.
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April 8th, 2012, 05:26 AM
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I am so sorry your having to go through this. My OB specialized in fertility too but when I started seeing the RE they told me that what is "normal" to an OB for your thyroid is not what is "normal" to them. She is retesting my thyroid as well as testing other thyroid levels. Most doctors only do the standard test for it but that is not the most accurate one for TTC. Have you thought about seeing an RE? I know I pushed it off for so long and now I'm not quite sure why I waited. They jump right into finding the problems and are really helpful.
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April 8th, 2012, 07:57 AM
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I am sorry that you are going through this.
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April 9th, 2012, 02:47 PM
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I am so sorry! I was really hoping this was it for you. I hope that your doctor is able to help you out and get you some answers.
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April 9th, 2012, 02:49 PM
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(((((HUGS))))) i'm so sorry you're going through this...going to ditto Katie that an RE might be helpful to you at this point if you're open to going to see one...
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April 9th, 2012, 03:40 PM
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I didn't call my OB today because I am still waiting on AF to show. I am spotting but not cramping. I think I am going to make my appointment about my AF. My last cycle was so bad that I should have called last month but I have my mom in my ear telling me that what was going on is normal sometimes. WARNING!! With my last cycle I passed around 15clots as big as a silver dollar with in 3hours time, causing me to change my pad every 30minutes during the 3hours. I was going to call my doctor the next day after that but my flow slowed to a light period. So I am thinking that might have something to do with me not being able to get pregnant?

Thank you ladies for your support!! I will update tomorrow with everything. I am thinking I will get AF tomorrow.
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April 10th, 2012, 04:23 AM
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Have you ever been checked for Endometriosis? If not that is something the doctor might want to check for. I would definitely talk to them about the pain & clotting. There has to be an underlying issue and I hope they can get to the bottom of it for you.
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April 10th, 2012, 06:45 AM
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I'm with Katie and I think it's worth mentioning. You're right, it's not normal to pass clots like that.
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April 10th, 2012, 07:41 AM
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I'm sorry it's not working out
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April 10th, 2012, 08:23 AM
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I am really sorry you are going through this! I hope you can get some answers quickly!

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April 10th, 2012, 09:41 AM
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I called my OB and got an appointment for 4/19. I was thinking they were going to make me see his evil RN. I have called before in the past and his next appointment opening be at least a month away. I should be around O time when I go.
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