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April 25th, 2012, 12:03 PM
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Hello all,

I am Renee and I live in Colorado. I feel a little crazy saying this, but we lost our baby at 19 weeks just last week, and all I can think about is trying again I am really not sure what to expect, both physically and emotionally. With both of my pregnancies I got pregnant on the first month, not sure how long it takes after a loss. Looking forward to hearing about you ladies and your journey.
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April 25th, 2012, 12:10 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Each loss is so different, as is every doctor. I'd go by what your doc tells you to do as far as how to to wait to TTC. Some people need time to heal emotionally, while others get healing from getting pregnant right away. (((hugs)))
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April 25th, 2012, 12:16 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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April 25th, 2012, 12:17 PM
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Everyone is so different. Just try to be patient with your body as it heals. I'm very sorry for your loss.
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April 25th, 2012, 05:07 PM
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Welcome Renee! I am so very sorry for your loss. As the other ladies have said it really varies on when you can try again. Being 19 weeks along your doctor will probably want you to wait one cycle (or more). Do they know what caused your loss? Don't feel crazy. You lost your child and are yearning for another one.
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April 25th, 2012, 06:47 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. You will need to wait one cycle at least. You don't need to but you should. Your body needs time to heal. In the mean time we are all here for you.
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April 25th, 2012, 08:12 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss, Renee, that must have been such an awful experience. It will be for a while, I'm sure. Women here have told me to be patient with myself, and that's the best advice I can share - when it comes to working out your feelings, and when it comes to deciding when to try again.

I hope you find some comfort here while you mourn your loss.
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April 26th, 2012, 07:31 AM
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Hi Renee, welcome to the board, I'm so sorry for the circumstances that brings you here. I'm Aimee and waiting for my first cycle after a loss to TTC again. Hope your stay here is short and sweet!
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April 26th, 2012, 08:52 AM
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Thank you ladies, nice to be among those that understand!
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April 26th, 2012, 10:28 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss! With both of my losses, I wasn't as far along as you are, but I did get pregnant the first month we started to try, we waited until after AF came the first time.

Don't feel crazy about wanting to try again right away, many people go through that and they do try right away, for some it is the way back to peace.

HUGS!!
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