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I am Renee and I live in Colorado. I feel a little crazy saying this, but we lost our baby at 19 weeks just last week, and all I can think about is trying again I am really not sure what to expect, both physically and emotionally. With both of my pregnancies I got pregnant on the first month, not sure how long it takes after a loss. Looking forward to hearing about you ladies and your journey.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Each loss is so different, as is every doctor. I'd go by what your doc tells you to do as far as how to to wait to TTC. Some people need time to heal emotionally, while others get healing from getting pregnant right away. (((hugs)))
Welcome Renee! I am so very sorry for your loss. As the other ladies have said it really varies on when you can try again. Being 19 weeks along your doctor will probably want you to wait one cycle (or more). Do they know what caused your loss? Don't feel crazy. You lost your child and are yearning for another one.
My Angels- 12-15-08 @ 13w3d♥ 05-09 @ 6w2d♥ & 2 Early Losses♥ Twins 9-7-10♥ & 10-2-10 ♥ 2/11/11
I am so sorry for your loss, Renee, that must have been such an awful experience. It will be for a while, I'm sure. Women here have told me to be patient with myself, and that's the best advice I can share - when it comes to working out your feelings, and when it comes to deciding when to try again.
I hope you find some comfort here while you mourn your loss.