[AimeeD041727]

Hi Everyone,
Here is my story:
I went for my routine first check-up on Monday. The doctor tried to listen for the baby's heartbeat but she couldn't find it. She sent me for an u/s. The U/S revealed that there were two empty gestational sacs. I had to go and get my HCG levels taken and then again yesterday. The doctor's office called me today and told me that my levels have dropped. They still want me to go for one more HCG check tomorrow and then for an U/S on Monday. I started cramping last night and I am spotting today.

My heart is breaking but I look at my three beautiful little girls and I feel very lucky. I am hoping that once this process is over, I will be able to add our fourth miracle to our family.

[Krisnina]

Oh no Aimee- not you too! There seems to be a lot of us from the Nov. DDC. I am so sad that you are joining us here.

[AimeeD041727]

I know it is really sad. This is my first loss. So I figured I would join a group quickly because it will help me to talk about what I am going through.

I never realized how many people have experienced this.

[Krisnina]

I hear that. This was my first loss and my first pregnancy. After we heard a strong heart beat we started telling a lot of people. I didn't realize that so many people actually do miscarry, and if I did kind of realize- I never thought it would be me. And I for sure never thought it would hurt so much.

[audiesmommy]

im so sorry you have to go threw this. but welcoem to the group, ther are alot of great people on here to talk to and we are allways here for you.

im tasha, i have a 20motnh old daughter audie had a miscarriage at 10 weeks oct2011 and an ectopic witch was treated with methotrexate in January 2012.

[Glitz]

aww you too. I never thought this would happened to you. I am so sorry for your loss and I agree with you about feeling lucky when looking at my girls because as you know I also have 3 beautiful girls. I am still not sure about trying again maybe I will change my mind later. It is sad to see so many Nov DDC not making it

[AimeeD041727]

Here is a little update:
It has been a long 24 hours. Last night I ended up in the ER because I started bleeding really bad. I had to have an D & E done right away because I was not able to pass everything. I had to stay over night and I just got home a bit ago. The doctor said that it would have taken weeks for me to miscarry completely. Now I have to wait for 4 weeks for my follow up appointment.

[Glitz]

Take it easy that is what happened to me this week. I started bleeding very heavyly and had an Emergency D&C done.

[Grlsshp9]

Originally Posted by Krisnina

I hear that. This was my first loss and my first pregnancy. After we heard a strong heart beat we started telling a lot of people. I didn't realize that so many people actually do miscarry, and if I did kind of realize- I never thought it would be me. And I for sure never thought it would hurt so much.

Took the words right out of my mouth. This was my first pregnancy too, and I told people as soon as I found out, not realizing how common it is to lose a baby.

[AimeeD041727]

It was really hard to tell my daughters what happened.

[~~MeeMee~~]

Oh Aimee, I’m so sorry you are here too! Both the ladies here and on the pregnancy loss board are very supportive. I hope you heal both physically and emotionally fast so you can have your rainbow baby very soon!

[AimeeD041727]

Thanks, Aimee