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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Denver, Co
Posts: 2,026
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I feel like I have a curse or something. Lost my baby, Garren, at 19 weeks just 2 weeks ago. Then my cousin died last week and my MIL 2 days ago. How am I supposed to process all of this? I haven't even had time to go through emotions with Garren, and now I am having to deal with everything else. So crazy.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: South Carolina
Posts: 10,321
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I am so sorry for your losses!!! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Savannah GA
Posts: 13,391
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I am so sorry for your losses.... How heartbreaking. I went through something similar where in the span of 2 years had 4 miscarriages, my father in law died and then my mother in law (whom was like my best friend) died as well. It was so much to process. My mind went into overload and I ended up depressed and on anti-depressents and generic Valium to numb it all. (((hugs)))
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praying for #2
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Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: USA
Posts: 1,226
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I’m so sorry for your losses, if it feels too overwhelming it might be time to seek professional counseling.
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Oahu
Posts: 7,051
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 I'm very sorry  I second sleepinangel, counseling would benefit you greatly so you can grieve each one instead of feeling lost.
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Veteran
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Join Date: Apr 2012
Posts: 109
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I am so sorry for all of your losses. Like the ladies above, I would suggest therapy/counseling as well. I found it very helpful after my loss. Sending you warm thoughts and big hugs!
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: OHIO
Posts: 15,943
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I am so sorry for all of your losses. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Jaime
stay at home, homeschooling momma to Jacob(12), Alisha(10), Andrew (5)
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유+웃=❤
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Join Date: May 2009
Location: Pennsylvania
Posts: 15,739
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I am so very sorry for all your losses. I had something similar happen after my first loss. Just remember that when everything seems like to much take things a minute at a time. Try not to look to far into the future and just remember that we are here for you.
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Super Mommy
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Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Southern Indiana
Posts: 826
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I'm so sorry for your losses. Right before I lost my baby two close friends of the family died, and then after I lost my baby My mother's best friend died and then my grandmother.. It was hard to go through, but you will pull through! Praying for you..
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Veteran
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Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 279
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Thoughts and prayers are on the way. So sorry to hear about your losses. Hugs
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POAS Queen
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Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 3,952
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When it rains, it pours. I'm so sorry to hear about all of this. Sometimes it really does just feel like to much to process If you decide not to go the counseling route for any reason, at least make sure you're giving yourself space and time to try and work through things. Sit down and make time for each individual loss some as opposed to just being miserable in general because of the combination. This will help you work through them as individual events so you can give everyone the attention you feel they deserve <3
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With us on earth for five short days, with us in our hearts forever.
(Thank you Natasha for this beautiful graphic of Andrew, and to the ladies of the Nov 10 PR who help me in carrying on his memory.)
Jan. 2009: Came off years of BCP and started TTC
March 2010: BFP -- finally!
Oct. 22, 2010: Drew is born, but has to stay in the NICU because of cord complications resulting in oxygen deprivation and brain problems =(
Oct. 27, 2010: I held him in my arms while Daddy, Grandma, Great-Uncle and I sang him to sleep =( Hardest thing I've ever done...
June 14, 2011: Drew's baby brother or sister waved hi to us with a BFP!
June 25, 2011: Natural miscarriage... Can we please catch a break here?
Nov. 2011: 100mg Clomid followed by 2mg Estrogen, Ovidrel trigger, and 200mg progesterone suppositories 2x/day 14 days. BFN.
Dec. 2011: 2nd medicated cycle. BFN.
Jan. 2012: Took a month off to breathe...
Feb. 2012: Same regimen of Clomid and other meds, add IUI. 2 eggs and 8.5 million swimmers. BFN.
March 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-11, follie scan CD 8 showed 6 follies likely to mature. Triggered, IUI on CD 14, 4 million swimmers. BFN.
April 2012: 75 IU Follistim CD 3-10. Scan showed 2 mature follies, 2 almost certain to mature, and two not likely but possible. (All 6 evenly and perfectly spaced out between the left and the right.) Triggered, IUI CD 13 with 5 million swimmers. BFN.
May 2012: 75 IU Follistim starting CD 3. Waiting to O. Timed intercourse. Likely 5 follies to mature.
^^ Click graphic for chart ^^
 
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