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May 19th, 2012, 11:46 AM
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This month has been awful already with Mother's day, and then a BFN when I really thought that this cycle was going to be a success. Now we will be trying again with clomid and progesterone which make me feel irrational and overly emotional, and I will supposedly be ovulating on (or right around) the one year anniversary of the loss of our first and only baby. Nathan was born still at 36.5 weeks on June 3rd last year.

I didn't have any difficulty getting pregnant with Nathan and my RE said that we didn't have any fertility issues, but we have been trying ever since we were cleared to and have had 2 early losses. Now it has been 6 months without any success.

Ugh!!! Why is this so hard??? Every month is like reopening a wound. I wish I could hide on a tropical island until all of these painful anniversaries were over.
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May 19th, 2012, 01:19 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses! This is my first cycle ttc with clomid and progesterone. Hopefully it is the right combo for the both of us!
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May 19th, 2012, 01:46 PM
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I hope it works for you!! It definitely started ovulation for me again, so that was good! Maybe I have to make it past the one year anniversary before my body will let me move forward. At least I am absolutely sure that I will never take my children for granted when/if I am able to have them to keep!
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May 19th, 2012, 02:31 PM
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I wish I could tell you that with time the date gets easier to deal with but for me they haven't. What has made it easier is I always try to do something special for my angels. I know that it doesn't take the pain away but we are here for you. I hope that you get your sticky BFP soon.
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May 19th, 2012, 05:21 PM
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im so sorry for your losses i hope you get your bfp vary soon, keep us all updated
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May 19th, 2012, 07:46 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses. Good luck this next month. Will keep fingers and toes crossed!
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May 20th, 2012, 07:18 AM
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Thank you all for your support! Hoping for February, 2013! Wishing success to all of you!!
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May 20th, 2012, 12:56 PM
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I am so sorry! I know how you feel. Getting AF is almost as bad as miscarrying again.
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May 20th, 2012, 07:20 PM
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In so dirty for your loss and I admire your strength! Fingers crossed for you!
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May 22nd, 2012, 03:16 PM
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Thank you!! Hopefully this will all be worth it someday for all of us.
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May 23rd, 2012, 11:20 AM
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I'm so sorry for your losses. Praying that this month's meds are the magic you need! ((HUGS))
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