[audiesmommy]

af didnt come yet but im so afrad to test i am jsut convinced if im pregnant its another ectopic . like im 95 percent sure if im pregnant its an ectopic so im just so scared to test. i have this werid pain below m y overy like in my grone area its like a dull pain kinda ike a pulled muscal and i get slight backpain n m left side. as bad as his sounds i hope af comes i dont want to be scared anymore, or be let down anmore

i also have no systems of pregnancy, my boobs are not sore at all im not any more tired then i have bin not feeling sick nothing. with my first 2 pregnancys i had slight ore boobs and was realy tired. if i have no symtomes and realy am pregnant then it will be jus as i felt with the ectopic...... i alos ovulated late like cd 18 or 19 so maby thats why? i dn im just so scared to est or to do anything


sorry about the spelling my phone hates me today

[LittleMomma09]

I am sorry you are feeling this way. When I was pregnant with my daughter I never had any symtoms. None what so ever. I just randomly tested and was shocked to see two lines. My whole pregnancy was like that. Also every pregnancy is different. and good luck for when you do test. KUP!!

[MiaVena]

Aww.. I think that being scared of being disappointed again is just something that all of us experience and it just wont go away...
And yes, every pregnancy is different, you are not out yet. And if you really are pregnant then the best thing is to just enjoy every day you get to be with your little beanie. No matter whats going to happen...
I read this book once...that we have no control over other animals/creatures (also people) fates and their lives... and we cant change it... all we can do is, when they cross our road and become a part of our lives..then we can only try and make theirs a little better....
Like when a stray cat comes to your yard then you never know or cant change the fact that maybe it will get hit by a truck an hour later, but as long as its in your yard... you can feed it and play with it...
Sorry if the subject was quite random hehe im in a strange mood today
Good luck to you!

[LilHerndon]

I know how scary the thought of an ectopic is, after my ectopic last year I was terrified I'd have another one. When I had my last chemical again I was SO scared of it being ectopic that I wasn't convinced otherwise until I got af and tested my levels back down. Then I was super paranoid with this BFP being ectopic until I actually saw it on the ultrasound. Once you have one it will always be a thought in your head, because it is such a scary experience that you never want to repeat. But we really need to fight through the fears and know that while it's a possibility it is not the most likely possibility. You most likely have a completely healthy and in the right spot bean in there and the sooner you know then the sooner you can enjoy! I really hope all goes well hun, it's scary but you got this, now go test so you can start enjoying pregnancy!