[ttc mom]

hey my name is Camille. ok so june 26 i had what they thought was a missed mc but they did the dnc only to come to find out it was a ectopic ( they couldnt see it due to a cyst) so they did a emergancy surgery june 27 ( i was 9 weeks) and removed part of my tube... does anyone know when af should come? and what should i expect? just really confused.... thank yall

[bellasky]

AF came for me about a week later and actually stayed incredibly regular for about 6 months. AF came on the 11th of every month for 6 months after. I thought that was weird. Hope it comes soon for you. I am so sorry for your loss and I am so sorry you had to go through surgery as well.

[Blieving4more]

So sorry to hear about your loss and the two procedures you had to go through. Healing time for everyone is different. I had my ectopic in Dec and it took about 6 weeks to get AF again. I had an irregular cycle for 4 months before getting a new "normal" cycle. I went from a 28 day cycle before ectopic to a 33 day cycle after ectopic. I hope that your body heals very quickly.

[ttc mom]

thank u ladies and sorry for your losses too! it really sux! have yall had a successful pregnancy since?

[MadMay]

ttc mom I got mine about 20 days after my emergency surgery. You havent shared your plans for the future and Im sure you doctor has told you that you should wait at least three months to try again (I waited 4 1/2 months) if you try and conceive sooner you have a higher chance of m/c or another tubal.

[bellasky]

We waited a year to try again because of financial situations. We got pregnant 3 months after we started trying but that ended in a chemical pregnancy. I'm now on cycle two after my chemical. Someone I work with had two children after her ectopic.

[.:Shortcake:.]

I am so very sorry for your loss. As the other ladies said it depends on your body as to when your cycle will return. We are here for you!

[Blieving4more]

Camille. There is hope. I am 7 weeks pregnant right now with my miracle baby. I saw the heartbeat during ultrasound last week so I do believe that I am carrying my rainbow baby. The majority of the women you are going to meet on TTCAL at the moment are still trying for their rainbow baby but don't be discouraged. There are many graduates from this group that are in DDCs right now. They just don't post on here as much anymore.

[stillwaiting]

I'm so sorry for your loss and surgeries.

It took me around 34 days to get my cycle back after my M/C. I didn't have a D&C, I passed it at home with the help of some medicine my dr gave me, so I think that is why it took me so long.

Everyone is different and it's frustrating to wait for your cycle to return. I hope you get back on track soon and get your rainbow baby!

[lovely.carlie]

I'm a graduate and I just get so wrapped up in life but I still come and check on my girls it took us 14 months to get pg again so never give up hope! GL!

[ttc mom]

Thank you ladies!!!! We will try again soon!!! But gotta wait which will be a good idea .,.. Ya know time to heal both physically and emotionally.... Still haven't started af yet.... Grrr going to call the dr today and see what is going on....

[captivate]

I had my D&C for my missed miscarriage ( 10 weeks 4 days ) on the 18th June and AF came on the 9th July.

I have short cycles though so she was du to come then anyway. I am currently on my 1st cycle TTC but am out this month due to bad timing due to delayed ejaculation.

Anyway sorry for your losss weetie and i hope you get that rainbow baby soon. xxx