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March 5th, 2013, 07:28 PM
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We went for the u/s yesterday and they couldn't find a heartbeat. I should be 8 weeks, they kept asking if my dates could be off a few weeks (they are not). There was a sac, but couldn't really anything in it, so looks like the baby stopped growing a few weeks ago. I went for counseling for the D&C and blood-work to check hcg levels today.

They want me to wait until next week for the D&C. This is my first loss and I feel devastated. I just want to get through this and start trying again ASAP.
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March 6th, 2013, 05:40 AM
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Giant hugs to you. How heartbreaking. All you can do now is get through it.
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March 6th, 2013, 07:51 AM
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I am so very sorry for your loss. If you have any questions before the procedure feel free to ask, several of us in here have had D&Cs. We are also here if you want to talk or just need to vent anytime. Being able to talk about my loss here really helped me get through some of the initial shock.

We are here anytime you need us. Again I am so very sorry you are going through this.
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March 6th, 2013, 04:50 PM
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I'm so sorry. Your story sounds very similar to mine. 2 days after the ultrasound my miscarriage happened naturally. My OB was convinced my dates were just off until I told him when I got a positive test, which wouldn't have been possible with what the sac was measuring. We're jumping right into TTC also...just waiting to O now! Best of luck to you ((hugs))
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March 6th, 2013, 05:58 PM
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I am so so sorry for your loss. (((Hugs))))
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March 7th, 2013, 05:22 AM
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I'm so sorry you are going through this. I just had my D&C yesterday. We lost at 12 wks. but the baby stopped growing at about 11.

We decided to go for another U/S before the D&C. We just needed that extra reassurance. For us, the D&C was necessary as there was too much to pass naturally. But whether by D&C or naturally it still hurts. Take the time you need to heal in your heart and mind.

The ladies are wonderful here. I am grateful to them for their support.
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March 7th, 2013, 07:26 AM
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thanks everyone. they are having me come back monday for a 2nd u/s just to be sure, but as I said, my dates are not off. D&C won't be until next thursday, I hate the wait
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March 7th, 2013, 07:58 AM
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Sorry you are going through this - the waiting must be so difficult. Keep us posted on how your appointment goes on Monday. I will be keeping you in my thoughts.
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